"Half a life has passed, stop and go, whoever can and can't, a friend in need is a friend indeed."

I saw this sentence some time ago, and the more I read it, the more I like it.

since childhood, we have met hundreds of people, not thousands.

Neighbors who grew up together, classmates at school, colleagues after work, friends of friends, and some people who added WeChat to each other for various reasons but hardly contacted each other.

I have been touched and betrayed, but most people are still drifting away.

when you are cold, you will know the pine and cypress, but when you are in trouble, you will see the truth. A man knows his companion in a long journey and a little inn.

In the filtering of suffering and time, we see some people and things more and more thoroughly:

People's hearts are complicated, and it is difficult to tell the truth from the false. Not all acquaintances are called friends, and not all friends care about you.

some people are good to you because they use you, while others are good to you because they cherish you.

Cherish your people, give them back with sincerity, and use your people, and slowly stay away from them.

people will meet countless people in this life, and these three people should always remember to be grateful.

First, you have nothing, and you still cling to it.

"till first her brother left for the war, and then her aunt died, and evenings went and evenings came, and her beauty faded. The pommel horse is cold in front of the door, so that finally she gave herself as wife to a merchant. "

This is a sentence by Bai Juyi in Pipa Xing.

It's about a woman who is famous and her appearance is still there, and the guests are crowded and endless. Later, when things changed, I lost my face, and those who had frequent contacts alienated women.

Have you ever had a similar experience? When you are rich and powerful, or successful, there are always many people around you. Once you are down and out, they withdraw faster than anyone else, for fear of involving his interests.

all the hustle and bustle in the world is for profit, and all the bustle in the world is for profit. This is the nature of most people, and you can't be too harsh and powerless to change it.

People don't know whose hands are the warmest until they are down and out. Love only knows whose heart is the softest when it quarrels.

A true friend is not how many people are after you when you are proud, but who never leaves you when you have nothing.

He is kind to you, not wanting anything, but sincerely wishing you well, and he will feel very happy if you live well.

such a person must be the most real person, and the one you can't live up to no matter what.

Second, people who understand your joy and your difficulties.

There is a poem on the Internet, which I like very much:

Everyone has a dead corner, and if they can't get out, others can't get in. I put my deepest secret there. You don't understand me. I don't blame you.

everyone has a line of tears,

the cold water he drank, and the tears he brewed.

I sent my saddest grievances there.

you don't understand me. I don't blame you.

As the poem says, everyone has their own unspeakable sufferings, and they can't tell others. Most of the time, they all swallow their pains and cry secretly.

very sad, but also very realistic. The world is so big, you will meet thousands of people in Qian Qian, but few people really understand you.

but there may be one or two people who know your warmth and sadness.

He not only cares about whether you fly high or not, but also cares about whether you are tired or not.

He won't always rush you on, but will give you a shoulder to lean on when you are tired.

He can see your bravado at a glance, and then warm your unspeakable hardships with a hug.

Life is not easy. People who understand you are also people who cross you.

be grateful to those who know and understand you, even if there is only one, it is worth your life to cultivate a heart-to-heart relationship.

Third, people who will point out your mistakes, but will help you correct them together.

Hong Yingming once said this in Caigen Tan:

Generally speaking, harsh advice can correct your virtue and help you make progress, while false praise sounds sweet, but it is like poison, which is easy to bury your life.

In our life, we will meet many people:

Some people praise you constantly, and what they say is always good. In his praise, you also think you are excellent, but you can't see your own shortcomings, and then you stagnate or even go backwards in life.

there is a kind of person who always takes pleasure in attacking others. No matter what you do, you can always find fault with you, hit you, and then show your nobility. With such people, you will be very uncomfortable and it will be difficult to be happy.

There is another kind of person who is genuinely happy for you when you do the right thing. If you do something wrong, he will tell you seriously what you did wrong, and then sincerely help you to correct your mistakes.

With his sincere and sincere help, you become a better and better self.

such a friend is a friend, a mirror, and a benefactor of your life, which is worth remembering all your life.

A lifetime is not long, with dozens of spring and autumn periods. Life is not short, more than 2 thousand days and nights.

In this long or short time, you will meet thousands of people in Qian Qian, but there must be fewer and fewer real friends.

Because, as we walked, we gradually found that our directions were inconsistent, our personalities were incompatible, and our status began to disparity.

Green radish brushed her skirt, and Qingyun wet her promise. Mountains and water can be forgotten in pairs, and days and months can have nothing to do with each other.

It's not easy for those friends who appear in our life to go through one year. It's a miracle that they can persist for two years and stay together for five years. Those who are still there for ten years should be invited into life.

whatever it is, if you don't manage it, you will become a stranger.

In this fickle era, be more understanding and less calculating, and be grateful to those who have stayed with you after the screening of time and suffering.

For the rest of my life, I wish you a dreamless night and a peaceful night, and I hope you are not afraid of loneliness and frustrations, and you will always be accompanied by good friends along the way.

Many modern people feel that the communication circle is too small. It is hard to talk about making friends.

by the way, the students who are still on campus. Their communication circle is usually limited to the class, the department and the school, and rarely cross-school. However, due to the special nature of the school group, their friendship is relatively pure and profound, so they can often continue well in the social environment. Therefore, students and friends who have not yet entered the society, please cherish the time and opportunities, and make more close friends during the school period, which will be a very important asset for you in the future.

City people in the workplace all have their own work circles, but as they get older, they are less and less willing to make friends with others. Moreover, people in the workplace nowadays do not advocate developing friends among colleagues, and this circle is limited to working relationships. Of course, it is not excluded that some people are willing to make friends with colleagues and establish a network of contacts, especially those who have always dreamed of starting a business. After all, everyone works together and knows each other's professional skills and personality traits quite well. If we can pull a ready-made team out to go it alone, it will definitely get twice the result with half the effort!

I won't talk much about the life circle in the community. Basically, I just close the door when I go home and don't talk to my next-door neighbors. Occasionally, because the balcony leaks, the room is not soundproof, etc., I finally meet a real person, but I can't talk about friendship because of unhappiness. If you have children or pets at home, you may find * * * to chat with when you play together. In other cases, you basically can't even meet, let alone make friends.

However, now is the era of network information. There are always people who can find various ways to benefit the resources in the existing circle and expand their circle of friends and information network. For example, if you build a chat group among colleagues, no matter which stage you join or leave, as long as you have worked in the same company, you can join in, and occasionally you can string together. Maybe there are just a few people who are like-minded and become friends. For another example, some people in the same community build a large group, publish some convenience information in the community to attract everyone to enter, or borrow some festivals to hold a candy-begging activity for children. When they have enough popularity, they can also select friends or partners who can develop in depth.

Maybe you can make friends with wise men even if you spend all your possessions. However, I have neither money nor resources, and people are very frustrated. Is anyone willing to make friends with me just by sincere heart and full of enthusiasm?

I believe that many friends have encountered such a problem recently, that is, many people feel that their circle is really too small, and they really want to know how to meet new friends. So I'll tell you today. First of all, we should let go of our attitude, that is, when facing strangers, don't be so far away and make ourselves more accommodating. In this case, I believe others will be willing to make friends with you. Secondly, we should know that modern social software is actually very developed, so in this developed social software, we can actually open our body and mind well because of the screen in the middle. Let yourself make friends with strangers calmly, then this time is the best time for us to make new friends, so sometimes we should not just complain, but also know how to change our thoughts and ideas appropriately.

when the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when people look at it, there will be no disciples. Lower your price and treat others sincerely, and win the respect of others with tolerance and sincerity. Get together with the people around you, stick together, and don't be conceited and narcissistic. However, we must adhere to the bottom line of self-discipline and law-abiding. Don't talk like others, be outside the circle and make friends.

this is not easy, please broaden your horizons! Now there are not only online friends, but also friends that can be made in society. As long as he goes outside, he will be your friends everywhere. For example, if you go out to buy something, you can talk to the salesman about the price or ask for directions. Say hello when we meet again, won't you have friends to talk to? What's more, you have more opportunities in the park during holidays around the country. If you like singing, just go to the singer's place and hold a show. If you want to find the right person, then you can go to the park or shopping mall where you often go, and leave a phone number and an address for each other when you see someone you like to talk to. Why don't you just do it?

It's not easy. Now it's all about money. If you have money, you have face. If you have face and power, you have friends. In addition, you have to pay to make friends. If the miser is penniless, no one will associate with you! Poor people are ignored in the downtown area, and rich people go to the mountains to recognize their relatives. If you want to have friends now, you must have money.

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