How do WeChat chat with each other? In daily life, I believe that everyone will contact through WeChat when they are in love. Wechat chat is actually very skillful. Let's share how WeChat chats with each other. Let's have a look.
How to chat with each other on WeChat 1 1? Language is an art, and WeChat should use skills to keep the language distance.
Language is an art as well as a knowledge. We see many attractive people, and some people are willing to chat with such people. Chatting with such people, our minds will be open and not constrained.
Then the reason why lovers become lovers is that most of them also have the reasons of speaking and language art.
Wechat chat needs the same skills as chatting in our daily life. Distance produces beauty, which is not only practical for interpersonal communication, but also practical for chatting art. Wechat chat, we must keep a sense of distance, which is a person's bottom line defense. Do not cross it.
What should be said and what should not be said should be correct, informal and elegant. And no matter how close the distance is, don't have ambiguous feelings when the feelings are not mature.
In short, we should leave a good impression on the content of our chat, and always remember the sentence "People leave their names, geese leave their marks". Like WeChat chat technology, the characters on the mobile phone screen leave a person's character.
Second, humorous praise
Chatting with girls on WeChat and choosing humorous praise is very good. Opening remarks can help girls to establish a good relationship with themselves unconsciously. We know that humorous boys can give themselves extra points, but if you praise girls in a humorous way, you can not only give yourself extra points, but also welcome your favorite eyes.
If you choose humorous compliments, you can instantly make the other person feel that he has good taste. No matter whether you go in or not, it is always right to pursue the praise of girls, so that there is no gap between two people and they can quickly enter into in-depth conversation. Whether you are facing your girlfriends or customers, you should open two chat boxes in a humorous and exaggerated way.
Third, start from the circle of friends.
We can start with each other's circle of friends. The opening remarks of chatting with women on WeChat are a good way. It allows you to observe what girls are thinking at the moment. We found that girls' joys and sorrows are reflected in their circle of friends. Looking for a topic from a circle of friends can instantly open the chatterboxes that two people want to talk about.
Chatting with women on WeChat, in order to better enter the role of opening remarks, we need to make more efforts to observe what girls want. We can choose to compliment each other humorously, or pretend to meet her, or we can start from her circle of friends, as long as we observe carefully or find that there are many topics.
How to chat with each other on WeChat II. Matters needing attention in WeChat chat before blind date
1, rude
Boys don't reply to WeChat in time, which is not necessarily cold to girls, but at least it is impolite. The girl's feeling is "the other party didn't take me seriously". The boy still feels wronged: "I really didn't mean that, I'm just busy, why don't you tell me again …" But the girl feels neglected, and it's useless for the introducer to convey the boy's apology. Contact with girls for the purpose of blind date, although only on WeChat, should also maintain basic courtesy. No matter how busy you are, you won't waste a few seconds to reply "Sorry, I'm busy at work, I'll call you later".
2. Nonsense
Although we haven't met yet, I feel that they will be dating soon, so some boys regard the girls chatting on WeChat as "girlfriends". WeChat chat, they don't open the door, they say whatever they catch.
"Nonsense" is a state of boys' WeChat chat. To say that they are not malicious, they usually talk casually and feel very "open" to girls. However, because there is no good proper limit, this kind of behavior often makes girls feel disgusted and think that they are frivolous, so that they don't even want to see each other, just "bye-bye".
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There is also a class of boys who think that WeChat is a good way to improve the efficiency of blind date, so they establish WeChat contact with many girls at the same time. Their idea is to cast a wide net first, and then focus on training. However, because I haven't met anyone who chats with me, I'm not impressed, so I often make mistakes when chatting.
Chatting with multiple blind dates on WeChat at the same time will not be labeled as "morally corrupt", but it is also suspected that the attitude of love is not serious and there is not enough respect for others. Although the man's blind date is mostly an objective reality, it can't be "chaotic". It is the best way to contact a girl's WeChat first and find it inappropriate before starting the next WeChat trip.
WeChat chat, it is a good thing to use it well; If the effect is not good, it is really a mistake. When it comes to being together, the fault is not WeChat, but many boys don't understand the rules of blind date. Although we haven't met, chatting online is also a social activity. Every word you type represents your own image, so it's better to press "Send" after careful consideration.
Second, the minefield of chatting before blind date
1. How did your previous boyfriend/girlfriend break up?
Most people want to ask this question, but they may be embarrassed to ask it when they meet or chat for the first time. Maybe when they are ripe, they will ask by innuendo. Ordinary people will never talk about their scandals, so the answer to this question will never affect their image. Some people say that they are incompatible, others say that their parents don't like themselves, or that the other person looks down on their family, such as being seen cheating on themselves, or the last one is. So this question is actually asked in vain. It can be used as a topic, but don't take it to heart.
2. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had before?
This question is almost a must for men and women. Except for a few hypocritical people who will ask questions carefully by innuendo, most people will ask them directly. As a person who is about to become his lover, it is normal to know the other person's past love history, just like the right to know about shopping, just like handing in a resume when looking for a job. If the other person is an understanding and high-quality person, he will often say it when he meets or even chats for the first time.
Because the truth of the answer to this question cannot be verified, most people know that the more times you talk about love, the worse your image will be. If a man has been in love many times, women will think that this man must be very playboy or picky. If a woman has been in love many times, the man must think that this woman has been played by so many men and can't be broken. Most people don't honestly say it even if they have been in love many times, so you get only a few answers, including 1, 2, 3.
What are you looking for? What are your requirements for choosing a spouse?
People will think, how can this question be a stupid question? Isn't this a necessary question?
This question comes from two aspects: women ask men, usually men look for women. Most men have a crush on this woman, so his mate selection requirements must be tailored for this woman, because to make her feel that they are a good match, even if they don't like men after dating, at most, they will disappear automatically.
Third, the reason why WeChat chats before blind date.
1. From the moment we met, the other party was not interested in you.
This is the most intuitive of all reasons, and the other party has no intention of continuing with you at all. In fact, many young people who go on blind dates are influenced by their families and don't really want to go on blind dates. So after politely adding WeChat, they will chat with you for a while, and then they won't waste any more time.
Everyone doesn't want to waste energy on people they don't like, so does everyone. Maybe at first, some people will chat with you in the mood of making friends, but later they find that they are really not interested in you, so they simply end the possibility between two people with silence.
2. During the chat, I touched the other person's restricted area.
Modern people's life is very stressful, and it is easy to complain to others, but many girls actually don't like listening to boys complain, which will make them feel that boys are too fragile to be entrusted.
Others, in order to show their humor, will make some inappropriate jokes. People you just met on a blind date, you don't know what the other person has experienced, and you are likely to talk about topics that the other person doesn't like, and even inadvertently poke your own scars. After such a thing happens, the other party will definitely not want to continue chatting with you.
3. The other party really doesn't have time to reply.
Some people are so busy at work that they have no time to stare at their mobile phones every day. Others are not allowed to take out their mobile phones at all during office hours. In this case, the other party may really not see your message, and even if they do, they can't reply immediately.
The two people I just met don't understand the situation of the blind date, and chatting is also about timeliness and unity, so many people are not as enthusiastic as before, and slowly stop chatting after the other party doesn't reply to the message.
4. Two people have different personalities.
A large number of older young people have personality problems to some extent. They are introverted and do not like to talk. They are usually immersed in a small world, which is of course why they need to go on blind dates to find someone.
If you meet this type of blind date, no matter what you send him, his reply is always cold, he will not take the initiative to find the same topic, and naturally he does not want to talk to him.
5. There are more suitable objects.
You may be just one of many blind date objects, and the other person's family may introduce him to someone with more suitable conditions, and he will stop chatting with you.
This is the most realistic and hurtful situation. If the other person has someone more suitable for marriage, he will have no energy and time to chat with you again, and then he will slowly disappear.