China is a country with a large population. More people means more competition and relatively cheap labor. Now young people's work pressure is ahead of schedule. Ordinary people have worked hard for thousands of dollars and have to meet many rigid requirements of the company. It is not uncommon to work overtime at night and on weekends.

One is to please the leader (or not to work overtime for fear of being targeted), and the other is because of helplessness, the rent and utilities are waiting, so I can't work hard. I am so tired that I just want to have a good rest in my spare time. Who cares about love?

The house price is too high.

Falling in love now is not like two people like each other before, and there are too many problems to consider. Nowadays, young people all go to work in the city. When it comes to marriage, you have to have your own nest.

However, high housing prices have discouraged many boys. Apart from food and drink, rent, utilities and daily expenses, they can't save much money a month, but the down payment is hundreds of thousands. Ordinary families can't afford this money at all, and those who have the ability will have to spend their parents' life savings. Many boys think the cost is too high, so they simply don't talk about it.

Some people say that you can rent a house to get married for true love, but even if you agree, can the woman's parents agree? No one wants their daughter to rent a house with others everywhere and feel like a wanderer. After all, the house is still good at home.

Some people feel that they don't need to buy a house and go straight back to their hometown, but "it was difficult to cross the sea before", they are used to city life, enjoy all kinds of life, enjoy convenient transportation and have a colorful life, and don't want to go back to their hometown, so high housing prices are also one of the important reasons.

3. The ratio between men and women is unbalanced.

At present, the ratio of men to women is extremely unbalanced, and more men than women is also one of the headaches, which means that many boys can only be single. On the other hand, many girls carry out the consciousness of "scarcity is precious", thinking that if there are few girls anyway, they can't get married, and the deeper this consciousness is, the higher their eyes are, and most people just want to marry Gao Fushuai.

The starting point is right. Everyone wants to live a good life and become rich, but the ideal is far from the fact. So Gao Fushuai doesn't like young and beautiful people. They always choose and procrastinate. As they get older, they will naturally become older women.

In a word, whether you are an older single man or woman, don't care about other people's eyes, just live a happy life. Being bound by other people's thoughts and happiness is a blasphemy against your own life. We didn't eat other people's food, but spent our own money, not others' preaching.

If you feel happy at this stage, continue to be yourself. If you want to find someone to accompany you, then redouble your efforts to improve yourself, and happiness will come to you.