Current location - Music Encyclopedia - Dating - An appointment of strange fate
An appointment of strange fate
Men and women don't know each other very well when they are in love. As soon as they met, they immediately entered the infatuation stage and then entered the marriage hall. Even if they get married within a month of love, it can be called "flash marriage", because a month of love is just the period of love, and it is easy to be carried away by love. At this time, they just make a conclusion based on each other's feelings. There is no specific statistics on the proportion of flash marriage between men and women, but it has gradually become a social phenomenon, indicating that young men and women can accept flash marriage, hidden marriage or naked marriage. On the one hand, marriage is no longer a sacred thing, so marriage and divorce are also rash. From love to marriage is an extremely complicated process. When two people are in love, the most important thing is to see each other's feelings and feelings. When they enter marriage, they must bear certain responsibilities, tolerate each other, respect each other and understand each other, which is impossible for "flash marriage" families. Because most of the "flash marriages" are men and women who have very stable feelings during their love, they have not experienced the running-in from love to marriage. The two sides temporarily accommodated each other because of their love, and neither of them showed their true selves to each other. They are more accommodating and have not formed a tacit understanding. Once you rush into the "besieged city", you will find that it is completely different from the ideal state. The hidden rule of love is to face very trivial life and setbacks. Moreover, there will be many contradictions between the two sides, which is in stark contrast to the mutual accommodation in love. It is easy for both sides to shrink back and have distrust of this marriage. If you want to live with each other immediately because you are madly in love with each other, the love counselor of Romance suggests that you slow down a little. Since you love each other deeply, you should think about each other, be responsible for each other, and think more about your future. Do you know each other well enough? Can you face all kinds of problems after marriage? Have you established a deep tacit understanding and emotional foundation between you? If not, then you should try to slow down the pace, cultivate more emotional foundation with each other, communicate more, care more and be more tolerant. When you plan a happy life in the future and prepare for it, congratulations, you can already enter the marriage hall.