Being friends is the worst way to refuse to express your feelings. After saying it, not only can you not be friends, but you may never be able to communicate again. But if we can turn our suitors into friends before confession, then we can avoid harm and make more friends.

Maybe you think that turning a suitor into a friend is no different from "hanging" others, but what Alian wants to teach you is not to make people who like you your friends, but to make your friends dislike you.

(The following is mainly expressed by boys as suitors)

According to the data I got from the university's discussion website, 87% of the boys approached a girl to associate with her. Among them, 73% boys admit that this kind of communication is always an attempt at the beginning to understand each other's personality and preferences.

In other words, 63.5% of the boys who are close to you don't have to be with you. They approached you just to check. As long as you express the signal that you can't fall in love with him before you confess, he will naturally turn friendship ... into friendship (pure).

We should cut off our feelings in our daily conversation and prevent him from thinking of ruining our future friendship. For example: I have someone I like, I don't want to fall in love (remember not to add it recently), I like xx type. Let him know that the chances of two people being together are slim, and he will naturally give up. These words were said in small talk before his confession. They are responsible for him and for himself, and those who know them will naturally understand.

And if you think he is nice, don't want to break off the relationship after rejecting him, and want to be friends, the following content is the focus of the article.

3. In terms of identity, we should remember that we are just friends, and don't do any unusual intimate actions, especially when the friendship is not strong enough, some small moves will cause the man great fantasy and speculation. Therefore, if you are in love for a long time, you must be measured and relaxed.

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4. Support him emotionally.

Support is not just a few words of comfort, such as: the next one is better, you can find it, come on. These words are actually very polite and perfunctory. Smart boys certainly understand that you don't pay attention to him.

So what should I do as an excellent friend of the opposite sex?

He should be introduced to his little sisters and so on. When he has a girl he likes, he might as well ask more questions and give ideas from the girl's point of view, such as the selection of gifts and the arrangement of dates. Of course, girls know these things better. After introduction, you can deepen the weight of friendship.

When he is in love, he doesn't have to stay away from him, avoid suspicion or something. Because he's just a friend, not an ex. As long as you talk to his girlfriend more when you meet her for the first time, his girlfriend won't mind too much. Who doesn't have a few heterosexual friends?

(And lovers can change frequently, but there may be only a few good friends. It is not good to value sex more than friends. )

5: Sex is completely forbidden.

Sometimes, the relationship is very close, perhaps on impulse ... After this kind of thing, the relationship is like a runaway wild horse, which is difficult to control. You have no idea what it's like for a boy to grovel for sex. )

Of course, before that, you should look after your personality, which is not good, so why make friends? As I said before, you need a good boy, so I'll mention it again here:

6. Economically, of course, it is even, more aa, and you can also invite people to dinner, which is heroic. Just like friends. Don't be together in terms of gifts, just be practical, and of course return gifts. Send something to eat, decorations or something (no supplies, razor gloves or anything)

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In fact, every boy wants to have a good friend of the opposite sex more or less, but the relationship between men and women is mostly impure. If he pursues failure, he will no longer contact. But in fact, as long as both sides give each other a chance to show their attitude, they can still have a good friendship. Sometimes it is always said that there is no pure friendship between men and women, mostly because the first one was not done well at first, which made the man like it slowly, but he secretly became a friend for a long time.

Friendship between men and women is more precious than love, because lovers can change, and only a few friends come and go. Imagine that we can often play together when we are old (both men and women can).