In real life, communication and tolerance with friends are the gold that Bao Shu Ya gave to Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness and understands Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss. In the communication with the collective, tolerance is the torch for Guangwu Emperor Liu Xiu to burn and vote for honesty. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found many letters flattering Wang Lang, insulting Liu Xiu and even plotting to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and burned them all, regardless of the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. This fire of tolerance burned hatred and laid a solid foundation for the cause.
Of course, if you want to gain tolerance, you can't do without the establishment of * * * winning view and transposition view. * * * The concept of winning is just like an advertisement saying, "It's good to have everyone!" This is a denial of the concept of excessive competition and a true collectivism. We need to be tolerant of our classmates and opponents in the competition. President Lincoln was once famous for tolerating his competitors, but later he finally caused dissatisfaction among lawmakers. The members said, "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they became my friends, weren't they destroying my enemies?" President Lincoln hit the nail on the head. A more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend. The concept of empathy requires us to think from another person's point of view and change our role. If there is friction in students' communication, they should exchange positions with each other, stand in each other's position and consider the problem with his way of thinking or angle of thinking. In this way, when you want to get angry, you will calm down through empathy; When you think the other person is unreasonable, you will really understand his feelings here and now through empathy; Through empathy, you will also become tolerant.
Students, when we learn to be tolerant, we also learn to be human. Sages of all ages advocated forgiveness and tolerance as important standards of ideal personality. The Book of Changes puts forward that "a gentleman carries things with virtue", and Xunzi advocates that "a gentleman is tolerant with virtue, ignorant with knowledge, shallow with knowledge, and refined with miscellaneous". Learning to be tolerant is also learning to live. People are social people, there is no absolute good or bad in the world, and good and evil are often intertwined, so we sometimes have to be elegant and tolerant in the world. There is a saying in Buddhism: "Smart people don't make people have no tolerance." The same is true of what we often say: "Be lenient with others, be lenient with others". In fact, tolerance does not mean incompetence. It is just the embodiment of a person's knowledge, mind and personality strength, which is the so-called "tolerance greatness".
Andrew matheus said such an inspiring sentence in The Heart of Tolerance. "One foot crushed the violet, but it left the fragrance on the heel. This is tolerance. " Life is like the sea, tolerance is a boat, rowing in the sea, you know the width of the sea; Life is like a mountain, tolerance is the path, climb along the path and you will know the height of the mountain; Life is like a song, tolerance is a song, and only by singing with it can you know the beauty of this song. Students, let's be more tolerant, more understanding, trust and friendship. May you and I be like the sea, without tolerance; The heart is wider than the sky and has everything!