People who have a cold temper and don’t like to make friends usually have which of the following characteristics? Understand what you want

We always have a variety of friends and social circles around us. Some people work hard to maintain their circle of friends and maintain good interpersonal relationships, but some people don't bother to socialize, and then drift further and further away from relatives and friends. But with targeted promotion, most people have different solutions when facing their own interpersonal relationships. These people who are not sociable or don't often go out with good friends are not because they are aloof or don't despise others, but because they understand what they want.

People who are good at sociability around me always say that they know so-and-so and that they get along very well there. In fact, making friends is essentially fair and mutually agreeable. If you are worthless, then what's the use of knowing the other person. People with cold personalities happen to see clearly the essence of making friends, so they will only quietly improve their abilities. We understand that no matter how good the friends around us are, if they are not sincere, what is the use? They understand that the best choice is to make themselves better, to quietly improve their abilities, to give up some useless social interactions, and to be themselves with peace of mind is the first priority in life. Understand that you can only rely on yourself in life

What everyone is most afraid of is living in the expectations of others. They are worried that they will be criticized by others if they do these things, so they choose not to do them, and ultimately let themselves down and take advantage of others. But there are always some people in life who are not good at communicating. They are alone all day long, reading and growing alone. We have jumped out of other people's opinions. I want to wander and be a better version of myself, and do what I want to do.

Deliberately maintaining relationships will only make yourself passive and unable to do your best. The number of friends and social circle around me has decreased, but what I have gained in return is growth and stability. We don’t have to worry about not having friends, nor do we have to worry about being alienated by relatives and friends. You just need to do your own thing, improve your abilities, and do what you want to do. Every step you take, we will keep you steady and steady. I hope that everyone can do what they want to do and become the person they want to be.