Just because one or both parties desperately need to leave their original family and environment, because it is too harsh, too depressing, and too depressing and causes people to feel depressed and anxious, then just marry anyone and leave home. This is a marriage relationship established with the motive of escape. Regarding the marriages formed by the rescuer mentality and the escape mentality, there are many elaborations in family psychology research, because these marriages are bound to fail. Regarding exchange marriage, youth and beauty are exchanged for fame, fortune, status, and money to gamble on the future. Because this is a materially quantified transaction, the marriage may be stable, and the beauty does not know who she is. Most of the young party will take the money and raise a lover outside. In fact, there are few true confidantes between men and women. Define "beauty" again. This generally means that the woman is somewhat beautiful. How many men are unmoved in the presence of beautiful women? Are you feeling calm in your arms? Unless he has other interests or concerns to consider. This kind of communication occurs because you treat the other person as a person whom you respect, who is intellectually challenging and intellectually stimulating, rather than a man or woman. I have no other talents in life, but I like to read a wide range of books, study people's hearts, examine human nature, and observe interpersonal relationships. I have been living in a daze for many years, and recently I have begun to understand a few things. One of them is: close friends between men and women must not have the same kind of sexual attraction between men and women if they want to be truly intimate friends. But this is difficult to do. People who are sexually attractive and intimate to a certain level become confused. Because love itself contains too much exclusivity, prejudice and injustice. These things will limit people's thinking and attitudes. Where to find a true confidante? !