With the popularity of social networking, it is easy for women to lose both money and spirit, which is the "killing pig plate" in online dating.
What does the board mean?
First, charm a woman in love with empty sweet words. This process is called "raising pigs" by scammers.
Then began to cheat money, to destroy and destroy the female spirit, in order to obtain the greatest economic benefits. This process is called "killing pigs" by scammers.
This kind of scam will generally appear in economically developed cities, and scammers will choose to attack women with certain economic strength but spiritual emptiness.
Many women are also cheated out of their homes because of lack of awareness of prevention, and they are heavily in debt, which even leads to mental breakdown.
Today, I want to talk to you about how to see through the love scam and recognize the truth of love. And help more outstanding women find their place in their feelings, understand the normal laws and logic of true love, and thus get a happy life!
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First, be wary of perfect people and avoid emotional traps.
Through the analysis of many cases, we find that all cases suspected of "killing the pig board" have one thing in common: often a criminal group is manipulating the whole scam.
They usually get "hooking up" through dating websites or buying women's personal data.
They will analyze the characteristics of "prey" and then design perfect candidates for these "prey".
For example: more money, exclusive love, successful career, the burden of childless old people and so on.
There was a fan message before. She is 40 years old, divorced for many years and has children. She runs a company independently in Suzhou. I met a man who added her through her mobile phone number on WeChat. The other party is similar to her age and has been divorced for many years. She has a son who is going to study in England and is also an independent trading company.
The two exchanged WeChat and talked about marriage for only three months, but they never met.
One day three months later, the man suddenly disappeared, and the frequency of contact between them changed from intimacy to alienation. Women are confused by men's indifference and can't resist men's sweet words, so she is confused.
Obviously, the profile of the man in the story is perfect, which fully meets the ideal mate selection conditions of this woman: the children go abroad, have no burden, are similar in age, and have the same marriage and career experience.
This perfect human design is tailor-made for women, so he immediately seized the most basic line of defense of this female fan and chose to trust him without meeting.
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Second, think rationally and tear open the disguise of "career man".
Why is this man suspected of fraud?
We can rationally think about the following questions from the logical level:
1. If this man is really a middle-aged man with a successful career, he should be very busy at work, but he spent a lot of time chatting with this woman in the first three months.
How can a career-oriented man have so much free time to chat with women? This is not logical.
Second, he is a middle-aged man who has had a failed marriage experience. How could he fall in love with a woman before meeting?
And all his chats are about the relationship between husband and wife. It is illogical to talk about marriage before meeting, and to lock the relationship between the two as soon as possible.
Third, it is impossible for a person who runs his own company to completely disregard personal interests.
Marriage concerns his personal interests. The quality of the marriage partner will directly affect his future prospects. How could he not consider it through contact for a while?
Before meeting, we said, "Let's get married!" How can we get married without talking about the rights and interests of both parties to live together in the future? This is illogical.
Fourth, they met through the "mobile phone number addition" on WeChat. They have no common friends, and there is no way to find out all the information about each other.
Let's imagine: does a high-quality career-oriented man need to take the initiative to add a stranger's mobile phone number in order to find a partner? This is very illogical.
It is very likely that the information of this woman's company and mobile phone number has long been leaked, and this man found her through the leaked information.
In this story, I saw the most common routine of "killing pig board": "playing hard to get".
When women are chatting with men, men will suddenly ignore women, and some even disappear for a while. Some women may say that the other person is too busy, but how can a person be busy for ten and a half months without any news?
At this time, the criminal group used the means of "playing hard to get" to let the "fish" take the bait, and then suddenly disappeared when preparing to close the net, and women's worry, fear of losing and suffering were exactly what the other party wanted.
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No matter how powerful a person is, he has his weakness, but this weakness can only be exposed to the people we trust most, not those who confuse themselves with a few sweet words without any investigation.
Here, I will give you two important anti-fraud suggestions:
First, don't give each other money, don't give each other money, don't give each other money!
Important content, say it three times.
Don't give money to the other party for various reasons, such as a man's "investment failure" and a child's accident, even if he talks nonsense.
Second, if we have doubts, or hope that this relationship can develop normally, we must bravely break the illusion and meet each other late.
And be sure to meet in our city, don't go to each other's city, let alone go far away.
We can find a restaurant next to the local public security bureau and let the other party say, "I booked a meal in the restaurant next to the public security bureau and want to invite you to dinner." See if the other party will come. If the other party is a liar, he will definitely dare not go to the appointment.
If you are an extremely daring and cunning liar, you may also go to the appointment. At this time, we can bring a mature and experienced friend to accompany us to the appointment.
If the other person comes generously, we can get to know him face to face instead of being trapped in empty talk about love.
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I also want to give three pieces of advice to girls:
First, abstain from greed.
Perfection does not exist, and it is impossible for heaven to suddenly drop Alin Daiyu for an otaku; It's impossible to leave a bachelor for a woman for no reason.
For older unmarried young women, the contact information of a reliable object is worth tens of thousands, and now suddenly the next one falls in front of you, which is equivalent to a 5 million prize falling from the sky. You don't say!
Second, don't be hungry.
The hunger and thirst of girls is the expression of lack of love in their hearts.
A man inexplicably said, "My wife should eat more." "First of all, be kind to her and grab her heart." "Give me some cotton-padded jacket." ...
This is not love, this is all unknown address! None of the marshmallows in Xinjiang are so sweet.
This kind of high emotional value, the average man can't give it, only a liar can satisfy it. Because, this is their trick.
Third, establish basic logic.
Every swindler's cheating process will be full of flaws, depending on whether we can think rationally and identify.
Liar routine: it can provide high-level emotional value, meet the requirements of our mate selection conditions, avoid real interests, play hard to get, and lock the relationship as soon as possible. Everything is to "catch" someone as soon as possible.
Many women, at best, are inexperienced and too well protected. The worst thing is the lack of logic and basic common sense of life.
Just like the woman I mentioned above, she is already the mother of a child, and she doesn't know how to distinguish this sinister world. Should I thank her or be sad?
Adults must learn to understand the basic common sense of life and analyze the basic logic in order to avoid the sinister rivers and lakes.
There are many common tricks in reality:
For example, pretending to be a career man is aimed at women who want to change their class through marriage in order to cheat money; Men who pretend to be romantic in order to deceive people stare at women who really need romance; There is also a man who pretends to be injured, staring at a woman who likes to be the savior and has the heart of the Virgin. In the future, my team and I will sum up more anti-fraud experience and expose more tricks to everyone, just for everyone to live a truly happy and beautiful life.
Finally, I hope everyone can unite and work together to make the swindlers have nowhere to escape!
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