In table tennis, it is easy to find a partner. As long as you have a racket in your hand and the other person happens to be free, you can become a golfer.
However, it is not an easy thing to change from a ball friend to a friend. I don't know if the majority of golfers have found out that from playing table tennis, we can see a person's personality, then judge this person's growth experience, and even predict the future trajectory of TA, so of course, we can also deeply feel whether this person can become our friend.
If a person plays road ball, likes to play strength, and there is not much calculation in playing, then generally speaking, this person is honest in life and work, and likes to constantly improve his strength to win respect; If a player is calculating and controlling, there will be many "tricks" in his work and life. Whether this person is worthy of communication depends on his heart.
2. Contradictions, changes
I remember liking Bruce Lee very much when I was a child. He combined China's classical philosophy, western philosophy and martial arts, and creatively realized a series of wonderful expositions. Actually, isn't table tennis the same? When two people are opposed, you attack me, I attack you, you attack me, you guard me, you guard me, and yin and yang are repeated, giving birth to endless changes. Do you say attacking, picking the ball and pulling the ball must be offensive postures? Do you say that techniques such as blocking the ball, rubbing the ball and protecting the ring must be defensive? Not necessarily. Sometimes a simple gear is more powerful than a moving arc coil.
So, how do you think about playing table tennis? I don't think there is a fixed answer. Is it the most reasonable one recognized by the world? Not necessarily.
Step 3 choose one from thousands.
There are thousands of techniques and styles of table tennis, such as impact friction, forehand and backhand, forward spin, reverse spin, etc ... reverse glue, positive glue, raw glue, semi-long glue ... left leg right attack, fast break arc, fast break arc and chop play ... Probably only in theory can we learn so many techniques. How to choose your own, in fact, this is the process of knowing things, which contains your own values.
4. Crazy people can't live.
I believe that golfers must have heard of the western "10,000-hour law", which is especially popular with bosses. In other words, it takes a long time to master a skill completely. In table tennis, every technique needs long-term polishing. Even if you are ten years old, can you say that your forehand attack has no room for improvement? Table tennis is very complicated, but it is also a combination of every simple technique. A little breakthrough in details can make technology leap forward. Throughout the ages, many heroes have been defeated in persistence. Without the will to "not be crazy, not exist", it is difficult to break through in table tennis.
Cultivate one's own morality
Self-cultivation refers to the cultivation of body and mind, and the specific behavior of self-cultivation is manifested in daily life, that is, choosing kindness and following, learning in literature and meeting with courtesy. Self-cultivation is one of the core meanings of Confucian classics. Learning from things, sincerity and integrity, is a process of self-cultivation. Self-cultivation is the foundation, and managing the country is the purpose. Table tennis is the perfect combination of will, wisdom and physical strength, and it is an excellent choice for us to cultivate our body and mind.
If you ask me which sport is the easiest, I will recommend table tennis to you, and it will take turns by itself; If you want to ask me which sport is the most difficult, I will tell you that it is table tennis, how many heroes are amateurs, and the entry threshold for table tennis is too high; Compared with technology, cognition and ideas are more difficult, because it contains its own philosophy and values.