Hello, I'm glad to answer your questions. I think we should consider the following seven points before deciding to come over. First: Do you have the ability to take responsibility for yourself? Second: Do you know him well enough? Third: You gave up your job in your hometown and went to Beijing to find him. Have you considered what you would do if your relationship failed? Fourth: Will you regret giving up everything you are familiar with now? Fifth: If you two have such a good relationship, why do you have to give up everything now to find him, that is, why do you have to make sacrifices? Sixth: If you can't find a job immediately when you go to Beijing, how can you arrange it? Seventh: After living together, who will be responsible for the living expenses and how to distribute them?

In ancient times, marriage paid attention to matching. Although matching can't directly determine the happiness of a marriage with the development of the times, it has its reasons. Everyone's shaping is more or less related to his family of origin. Two people from similar families can have more topics to talk about, and they are more unified in the three views, and the probability of meeting together is also more. In the survey, 13.3% of young people said that they would know each other's family background before falling in love, and young people tend to look for people with similar family situation. For example, when two young people from a scholarly family sit together, of course they will talk about literature, and when they talk about some works, they will also talk about Kan Kan, and there are endless topics. But if one person comes from a merchant's family and the other comes from a lofty scholarly family, there will inevitably be some friction when two people sit together.

Although most people long for a pure love, the problem of love and bread is a big problem that always puzzles young people. Before falling in love, you may wish to carefully consider whether the consumption behavior and income of both parties are consistent, so as to avoid finding out that the two people are not in line in this respect and eventually break up. According to zhenai's survey, 12.5% of young people will know each other's consumption habits before falling in love, while 18% will know each other's work and income. Knowing each other from these two aspects, maybe you can see more clearly whether the other person is your lover. In the survey, 15.92% people said that the economic level of two people will directly affect the quality of a marriage. In ancient times, there were slang words such as poor couples losing everything, which shows that money plays an important role in the world of emotional marriage. Of course, this is not to advocate that love must be supported by enough money, but more often to judge whether the consumption concept and income of both sides match. In a relationship, if one party feels that he wants to live in the present, he should spend money in time, while the other party feels that life requires a sense of crisis, and he needs more reserves to tide over the difficulties in times of crisis. If these two people meet, there will be all kinds of contradictions and conflicts in life.