According to genetics, the farther away a woman marries, the smarter her offspring will be. Mixed race children are beautiful and in good health. Women should marry far away. Today's parents are selfish and have few children. They can only keep one by their side. They wish their daughter could recruit a son-in-law to come to their home and provide for them in their old age. We have seen that many father-in-laws and mothers-in-law are very kind and gentle to their sons-in-law. In fact, this is a calculation. They want to impress their sons-in-law, live in their own homes, and provide for themselves in old age. Those who have a daughter but no son are even more cunning. If the daughter runs away with the son-in-law, the old couple will be particularly disappointed. They feel that raising a daughter for someone else is a very selfish idea and does not put the daughter's happiness first. One person. I wonder if my daughter is doing well so that she can be kind to you and take care of you and your wife.
Marrying far away means that you come to live thousands of kilometers away from home for a man, playing the role of a wife as a woman, and the daughter-in-law as a housewife. role, and a year or several years later simultaneously playing the role of mother.
You put on a snow-white wedding dress, hold your husband’s hand and swear together that you will never leave her forever.
Here, you have to start a new circle of friends. On this basis, you also need to understand and integrate into your husband's circle.
There are also many daughters who, although they are married to their parents, still need their parents to take care of them if they are not doing well, let alone taking care of their parents.
At this point, you are married far away, you have no friends around you, and you have no relatives. The focus of your life is only on one person, your husband. If your career is not going well at this time, you will care about him very much, and everything in your life will end up being passive. You don't have a good sense of propriety. To be honest, you won't even think about propriety at that time. Loneliness and longing will make you crazy and do some outrageous things.
Of course, the sweetness of marriage makes you forget about homesickness for a while. When the passion of marriage has just cooled down and you find out you are pregnant, you have two options. You can give birth to him here, or give birth to him here without his natal family, and take him back after a few months or a year. Look at grandpa and grandma, or grandpa and grandma traveling thousands of miles to visit their daughter and grandson who can't let go, enduring fatigue, motion sickness, and a body that can't bear it. The second is to return to your parents' home, endure the vomiting and discomfort caused by pregnancy alone, have prenatal care and fantasize about everything after the child, and during the labor period, you have to endlessly count the dates for your husband's arrival.
So, it doesn’t matter whether you marry far away. What matters is that you have to live a good life, be considerate of your parents, and know how to take care of them. That's what matters most.
Perhaps you have gained a lot over the years and have lived a successful, happy and happy life, but every time you pass by some old people’s training ground, there always seems to be something missing in your heart. What you are missing is the right to participate in the rest of your parents' lives. Those things that were once distant and real existed.