① Language skills
Rule 1: The language should be clear and specific. Avoid misunderstanding to friends because of vague expression. When making a decision, make clear the purpose, explain the truth and avoid conflicts with friends. So as to gain the recognition and trust of the small partners and be willing to cooperate again.
Rule 2: Use words reasonably, seek truth from facts and never exaggerate. You never play with me, you never help me, you never ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄ ┄.
Rule 3: Actions should be more than words. "I'll give you an eraser tomorrow" and "Ask me if I can do it". Once you say it, you can't just say it without doing it, so as not to cause resentment and distrust among friends.
② Learn to listen.
Listening can make others feel respected and appreciated. One advantage of listening to others is that your friends will respect you more and be willing to make friends with you.
When using this listening skill, we should also pay attention to: be sincere and concentrate; Encourage with actions or short words when appropriate to show your understanding of your friends; If you understand what others say, you should also give accurate feedback. Only in this way can we enhance the effectiveness of the skill of "listening".
③ Communication skills in unfamiliar environment.
There is such a case: a new classmate came to the class at the beginning of school, and the children were complete strangers. After the new classmate introduces himself, children who are willing to make friends with him can introduce themselves to him and express their willingness to make friends with him. If they want to get to know their new classmates, they can also ask him questions at will, such as "What do you like to eat?" "What books do you like to read?" Wait a minute. In the communication, children get to know and be known quickly. After class, some students took the initiative to find him to play, and soon he had friends in the class. This is to tell children that if they want to make friends with others, they must first open themselves up and let others know about you. The other party will also show their feelings and ideas while trusting you, so as to achieve sincere communication. That is, what psychologists call "openness can produce openness" has a two-way effect. Therefore, "openness" is the "golden key" to make friends in a strange environment.
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