Don’t treat friends as friends. But if you can give it to a friend among friends, the connection must be very strong. There is no transfer of interests, and everyone is a friend. Once there is a battle for interests, they become enemies, or even opponents. Unlike classmates, the relationship between colleagues is not strong. It's okay to cooperate with each other in work, but you can't share your own information without reservation. You must recognize the dark side of human nature. Those who encounter betrayal and betrayal are usually your friends. Recognize the merits of human nature and set up defenses against people to prevent awareness. There are only two types of people when they first enter the workplace, the protagonist and the sidekick. If you want to rise to the top, you have to work hard to climb up and be the protagonist. There is a competitive relationship between the two people. The subordinates are always climbing up, and the superior leaders are always squeezing and worrying about the subordinates surpassing themselves. , this is especially true among peers, so entering the workplace is a competitive field. If two tigers fight, one of them will be injured. Where can I find friends?
In the same market, there are only a few network resources, and it takes a large group of people to divide them. Of course, whoever grabs them gets it. If you are friends with your friends, you can use the network resources you have. Have you been assigned to a friend? The corresponding friend is likely to assign precious network resources to you? This is related to sales performance and salary, and there are no friends among colleagues to raise eyebrows! Therefore, you must not treat your friends as friends. Friends can help you, but friends may stab you in the back. Colleagues pay attention to their rights and interests. The same network resources, whoever starts quickly will get it in the end. , compete with each other, and in the end the capable person comes on stage and becomes the protagonist, while the incompetent person can only be a sidekick!
However, I also firmly believe that it is difficult to make friends in the workplace. After all, people may have rights and competitiveness. Competition among colleagues only requires that there is no vicious price competition. Vicious price competition will expose each other's shortcomings, dig holes for each other, and compete for each other's rights and interests. Such competition will lead to the emergence of conflicts, and may lead to Physical contact, even hitting the other party with bruises all over his body. This kind of competition can only turn friends into rivals, not friends. And the competition among some colleagues is reasonable. Many people will not fight for each other's rights and interests, and will not ignore friends for the sake of rights and interests.
As long as colleagues don’t endanger their friends’ profits for their own rights, they don’t cheat on their friends, and they don’t have to compete for their friends’ profits in any way. Colleagues should help each other, cooperate with each other, and stick together for warmth, so that they may become friends. If everyone adheres to this view and is so guarded against friends, then entering the workplace will indeed be like a wolf and a tiger, and there will be no intimacy to talk about. There is no happiness to talk about in this kind of environment at work. Personally, I believe that work is sometimes not just a money-making device, but also a way to interact with others and gain a sense of belonging, thereby enhancing satisfaction. Everyone has their own living habits or habits of getting along, a way of caring for others and treating others sincerely. Friends are also human beings. There is a process of slowly opening up our hearts. After this process, we can become Friends, take care of each other at work and help each other in daily life.
However, the taboo of making friends at work must be mentioned, that is, do not go to group chats to gossip about others or try to bully others. Sooner or later, this will spread from person to person and reach other people’s ears. Thirty years of Hedong Three In the past ten years, don’t let your own boredom, too many things, and ignorance cause you to be in an embarrassing situation in the company in the future. To sum it up, be friendly to others, make friends sincerely, don’t gossip, and work hard. The company is a beautiful big family. Its market competition is to compete with each other. If you do well, I can do better. And they will get together outside working hours, drink some wine to relieve stress, and discuss work insights and work experiences with each other. This kind of leisurely and comfortable friendship between friends may become friends over time.