700 words after reading Zhuzi family instructions 1 This weekend, our Yuner Service Center organized and studied Zhuzi family instructions. Although it is only a few hundred words, it expresses a profound way of managing the family in an easy-to-understand style. It is a classic of Confucianism and has been valued by the world for hundreds of years. From today's perspective, Family Instructions of Zhu Zi is a family education book, which cultivates children's perfect personality and accepts traditional culture. After reading this article, I will also talk about my own experience. "Being a teacher is more important than being polite, and making friends is more important than keeping promises", "Take precautions, don't be thirsty and dig wells", "Leave room for everything, and be proud ..." Classic sayings from ancient times to the present are all convincing people with reason. There are famous sayings and aphorisms here, but also the truth that people need to do things, and people's mood. The ancients said, "talk to everyone, but you can't throw away my heart a little bit." If you plant flowers on purpose, you can't plant them. It is difficult to draw a tiger's skin but a bone, and people know its face but not its heart. " It means to be measured, to know how to hide and converge, and not to trust others easily. For young people like us, in this materialistic society, all kinds of temptations around us can easily make us lose our way and do wrong things in right and wrong, right and wrong.
So there is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. You don't have to make friends with others deliberately, because many friends are found by accident and are good friends who are soul mates with you. "Life, grass gives birth to a spring. Black hair didn't know how to study hard, and it was a white-haired person in a blink of an eye. " Nature is fair, everyone has only one chance, just like grass, it can only grow for one year. Time slips away inadvertently, how to grasp the time in bit by bit practice? In my opinion, young people at this stage should enrich themselves with knowledge. The sea of learning is boundless, and youth is fleeting. Maybe many people will think that there is still a lot of time, leaving things until tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow ... but the time has passed and will not come back anyway. So, study hard now, and don't wait until you are old to regret it. "Don't run a beautiful house, don't seek fertile land" and "Don't be complacent". There is no denying that desire gives us the motivation to move forward. People's desires are endless. It is like a grass full of vitality. As long as there are suitable conditions, it will grow wantonly. The vast world is complex and extremely wonderful. So we rush about in the bustling streets, exhausted physically and mentally for the sake of fame and profit. Perhaps no one has the thought or leisure to pause properly, and not many people can understand what they are looking for. They just walk and get and get what they think they want or deserve. However, no one can really have everything. Montague once said, "If we pursue happiness, there is no problem. In fact, what we are pursuing is to be happier than others. " Yes, a small word "ratio" makes countless scales unbalanced and makes countless hearts tired. We should learn to be satisfied, and those who are satisfied will always be happy. Set aside some time in the hustle and bustle, spend time with parents who have worked hard for themselves for half a lifetime, be considerate and caring for their loved ones, and greet friends ... Sometimes, happiness is as simple as that. "Be patient, think twice before you act" and "leave room for everything". Great Zen masters Hanshan and She had such a dialogue. Hanshan asked Pickup: "There are people who bully me, insult me, laugh at me and despise me. What should I do? " Pick it up and say, "just bear with him and let him avoid him." Let him bear it and ignore him. Look at him in a few years and you will know! " I really appreciate this sentence. It is said that calm down for a while and take a step back. There is a knife on the prefix "heart". If we don't deal with the distance between kindness and knife, we will be hurt. Endure, the mind will be broader and the world will be broader. China has many excellent cultures and traditions. If a nation lacks its own culture, reading foreign culture is very terrible. The long-standing culture of the East has been misinterpreted and forgotten by us too much, but it has been well preserved in our neighboring countries. If China wants to have a place in the world, it must carry forward our local culture and let foreigners learn from us. An American educator heard that 250 million students in China are learning English with a sarcastic expression. Why? Because the changes in English are too complicated, everyone is trying to keep the national things in their own language from being assimilated and influenced by others. Not to mention our primary school students, even our graduate students and doctoral students are spending a lot of time learning something that does not belong to our own culture. I remember reading an article about chanting by Mr. Hu Shi, saying that when he was studying in a private school, he also recited four books and five classics every day, which was quite a headache for him at that time. Fortunately, people just need to memorize it and don't need to understand it. During the long journey of life, they found that those boring things have become the beacon of life!
Times are changing. Perhaps some contents and viewpoints in ancient classics are not suitable for this era, but most of them are of great help to our own cultivation. As a modern young man, I think we should control our impetuous heart, control all kinds of temptations from outside, don't let ourselves fall into a misunderstanding, do things in a down-to-earth manner, be an upright person, learn from our predecessors, precipitate ourselves, and strive for rapid growth. The ancients said: First of all, we should cultivate ourselves, that is, cultivate ourselves, which shows how important our cultivation is. Therefore, I hope we young people can realize the importance of improving our own quality.
Read 700 words of Zhuzi's family instructions. Many years ago, I heard about Family Instructions of Zhuzi, but for many years I was always in a hurry and never read it carefully. With the growth of my age, I feel that I can calm down and read some books I want to read, so I carefully read the family instructions in my spare time, and I feel deeply after reading them. Now I'll write some ideas to share with you.
At the end of Ming Dynasty, Zhu Bailu's "Zhu Zi Jia Xun" is easy to understand and is a Confucian classic. Family precepts not only express the correct way to manage the family, but also contain profound principles of being a man and educating people, which have been valued by the world for hundreds of years.
In my opinion, although the family precepts are profound and profound, the most inspiring thing for our daily work is the following sentence: "Get up at dawn, sweep the court, and be neat inside and outside, that is, close the door and behave yourself." Some people may think that this sentence is the attitude we should uphold when living at home, and it has nothing to do with work. But I don't think so. Many things in the world come to the same goal by different routes, and life and work are the same. We must have a good habit and attitude.
The home should "sweep the court at dawn, and be clean inside and out". Isn't it always like this when you go to work every morning? Come every fifteen minutes in advance, clean your countertop, boil a pot of boiling water for everyone, then sort out your work ideas and work out your daily work plan. You will find that you can not only feel comfortable all day, but also work methodically. On the contrary, if you arrive at the office by the hour every morning, you can imagine the chaos that will follow in case of sudden or urgent tasks.
In the same way, stay at home and "rest if you are unconscious, and behave yourself when you close the door". Shouldn't our work be like this? Leave five minutes late after work every day, go through the unfinished work that needs to be completed tomorrow, make all kinds of emergency plans, mark things that are easy to forget and put them in obvious places, then check the switch sockets, doors and windows, and then leave with peace of mind. In this way, even if you encounter an emergency tomorrow morning, you can deal with it calmly.
Of course, "Zhu Zi Family Instructions" has brought us a lot, for example, let us be indifferent to fame and fortune, cultivate one's morality and keep the family in order, let us be frugal and modest, and so on. These words are not lofty truths. Read it carefully, and you will feel as if you are having a long talk with a wise elder. Every sentence may subtly affect your outlook on life and values. I think this is perhaps the most precious thing that family precepts bring us.
700 words After reading "Zhu Zi Family Instructions" 3 "Zhu Zi Family Instructions", we should say the reason why hundreds of words have become Confucian classics and been valued by the world for hundreds of years, and only in this way can we understand the good intentions of school teachers asking us to learn.
Not to mention the richness and profundity of Zhu Xi's family instructions, we can see that the whole article is connected by antithetical sentences, which has a sense of rhythm and is catchy to read.
For example, "get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, and be neat inside and outside." When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will check it yourself. "
From the beginning, it gives people a carefree mood. Many people yearn for a quiet life. It's actually quite simple. As the author said, get up early every morning, clean yourself up and greet the new day neatly. When the last ray of sunshine is taken away, they will fall asleep in the moonlight. A closed door will shut out troubles and precipitate yourself and other thoughts ... keep a calm mind and take every day seriously!
It teaches us to be frugal. "It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; Half a silk and half a wisp, it is difficult to save material resources. " This sentence has been widely circulated. Diligence is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is a treasure that cannot be discarded in today's greatly improved material life. Any unremarkable object is a gift from nature and the crystallization of human labor, which has its unique value and cannot be wasted; Productive labor is different from animals and is necessary for human survival. Therefore, thrift and hard work are the most basic virtues of human beings.
It teaches us to think. "It is wise to prepare for a rainy day and dig a well when you are thirsty." Just like "being prepared for danger in times of peace", life is not always smooth. Learning to think and have foresight is a necessary condition for success.
It teaches us to make friends. "Intimacy is wicked, long and tireless; Qu Zhi is old and anxious, and can rely on each other. " If you associate with those bad boys and girls, you will get tired of them for a long time. If you associate with Mr. Chen Youde, you can rely on them in times of crisis. This is also what Confucius said about making friends. It can be seen that making friends carefully is very important to yourself and others.
It teaches us to listen. "Listen to the words lightly, understand their unreasonable grievances, be patient, and think twice before you leap; If we argue about something, we must think calmly, "Yes, we should be good at listening, especially to leaders, but listening doesn't mean trusting it, and it doesn't mean teaching us tolerance. "Leave room for everything and be proud of it." Learn to be tolerant and give others a chance. A tolerant person must have a broad mind like the sea. Such a person is a peaceful person, and her heart is always peaceful. People should not be jealous. People who are better than themselves will always live in the torment of jealousy, not only hurting others, but also hurting themselves. Therefore, "people's happiness should not be jealous; People should not be lucky if they have disasters. "
"Family Instructions of Zhu Zi" is not only a family instruction at this time, but also a motto to spur personal behavior, so as to restrain and regulate oneself.
During the 700-word holiday after reading Zhuzi's family instructions, my mother and I read Zhuzi's family instructions. Although it is only a few hundred words, I read it with relish and let me understand a lot of truth. When I read the sentence "self-help must be simple, guests should not stay", it reminded me of something that happened and made me feel ashamed.
I remember one time, my mother's good friend came to my house as a guest, and so did my aunt's daughter. This little girl has a nice name. Her parents like her very much and affectionately call her "aran". Since she came in, she has been holding her hand to be caring and attentive, and even picked her up and kissed her twice. I was jealous, as if my parents had never been so kind to me at ordinary times. I snorted coldly. At this time, my mother shouted at me: "Alei, take out the delicious snacks and treat my sister quickly." I was so unhappy that I barely sighed. I opened the snack box, rummaged through this one I like to eat, and rummaged through that one I like to eat. I can't bear to give up this, but I still can't bear to pick up that. Finally, I reluctantly gave up what I wanted, picked two and fell on the table. I hate it when I see my mother's sister Aran sharing my delicious food happily.
Adults talk about their affairs in the living room. My mother was afraid that my sister would be bored, so she said to me, "Come on, take my sister to your room to play together." I was helpless and had to take her to my room. As soon as I came to the room, I said to her, "You can come, but I tell you, you can't touch anything in my room, you can only sleep or read the books you brought." Then I immediately turned around. She listened to me for a while, then sat on the floor and read a book. Maybe she thinks reading is too boring, or maybe the colorful tiles on my desk attract her. When I opened the door, I saw that she was absorbed in spelling my tile. That's my favorite toy, which was given by my uncle on my tenth birthday. I was so angry that I ran over and grabbed the tile from her hand and pushed her back heavily. She sat on the ground and cried. My mother heard crying and came to my room. Seeing my sister like this, she angrily criticized me: "My sister is a guest of our family today. You are a small master. Is this how you entertain guests? " I feel wronged, too, and my tears are falling.
I didn't really understand where I was wrong until today. "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" is like a key to my "disorderly door". I will study hard and be a reasonable boy. The phrase "self-help must be simple, no guests can stay" is also firmly imprinted in my heart, reminding myself to live frugally, be generous in hospitality and not to hide nostalgia.
700 words after reading "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" 5 winter vacation homework recited "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" in the next semester of the fourth grade in school. When I opened this book, I thought it was very boring classical Chinese. After reading it, I found that the whole article is connected by consecutive sentences, which reads like a golden jade and has a sense of rhythm. Not only is it not boring, but it is also unforgettable. Repeated reading makes me feel rich and profound.
"Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, be neat inside and outside, and shut the door when you are unconscious." This sentence seems to let me see a faint figure sweeping the courtyard in the morning mist, and the blue gown swaying gently in the wind; It seems that I saw a figure watching the sunset in the sunset sky, and the blue clothes were stained with gorgeous colors. After the last ray of sunshine dissipated, he slowly closed the doors and windows, shut his troubles out of the door, fell asleep in the moonlight like water, and dreamed that butterflies were flying freely. What a regular and healthy life. Work at sunrise and rest at sunset. What a leisurely, peaceful, plain and simple life.
"It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; Half-silk, persistent thinking about material difficulties. " This sentence is the same as "weeding at noon every day, sweating like a pig, but every grain is hard." It is also respect for labor and cherish the fruits of labor. Waste is undoubtedly shameful, at any time.
Among them, the sentence that impressed me the most was "seeing wealth produces flattery, and tolerance is the most shameful;" Those who are arrogant when they are poor are just mean. " "Don't take advantage of trade with your shoulders; Seeing poor relatives and neighbors, we need enthusiasm "... These simple aphorisms have long gone beyond words and become the spiritual laws of saints.
As a person, what I appreciate most is "listening to people's words lightly, knowing people's mistakes, enduring and thinking;" We should be good at listening, especially to leaders, but listening does not mean trusting. Discourse is the most commonly used and extensive communication medium in people's work and social life, so how to treat the surging tide of discourse? Contradictions are everywhere, right and wrong, but what about the lives of ordinary people?
How many/much? How to deal with it? So let's consider this sentence of Zhu Bailu!
"Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice will be sincere; Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read the classics. " Life is simple, but teaching children is essential. "
All these words show how important it is to educate future generations. Only with good educational methods can it be useful. We should not only let future generations read good books, but also set an example and educate future generations with our simple quality, so that future generations will live forever, otherwise it will only make the saying that three generations will fail come true.
Although I can't read some words, it helped me find a pure land of my heart and taught me how to keep a little innocence, sincerity and cultural persistence in the noisy world. In short, I have benefited a lot!
When I am exhausted by various social relationships, I like to close my eyes and recite the so-called Bing Xin formula, saying, "If my heart is clear, the sky will fall." Everything is still fixed and calm. Forget about yourself and keep one or six big decisions; Think nothing, do nothing. Look at each other up and down, looking dependent; Deliberately Xuan, surrender and think; There is nothing inside and outside, and the heart is clear. "I like these words. They really seem to freeze my heart and make all my troubles and worries disappear. It is "no desire, no desire" and "no self inside and outside".
"Nothing" is a realm, a supreme realm. In Zhu's family instructions, I read the "inaction" thought of an ancient sage. Zhu doesn't want to see the world so complicated. Thinking too complicated will only make him sad and tired. He ignored many things in the world and became a "nothing" mind. Pu Songling said that indifference is the highest point of emotion. Is this "nothing" the highest point of quality?
"Self-help must be frugal, and banquets must not stay." This is a "nothing" attitude towards one's own property. Zhu does not think that he should be extravagant because of excessive accumulation of money, nor does he think that what he used to spend on others is stingy. Only one of them is good or bad, and the other two are the performance of saints. Because you don't really treat property as nothing, thrifty people will be afraid to treat guests, and people who always treat guests can't get rid of luxury. Thinking of this, I can't help but sigh some "old people" now. Their parents seem to be the first kind of people, and they also seem to be the second kind. As the saying goes, everything happens for a reason. On the one hand, they laugh at their parents' meanness, on the other hand, they can't understand this phenomenon. I don't know that their "cause" has the "fruit" of their parents. If they can learn from Zhu's ignorance, so can their parents. It's really good to do both. The teachings of the ancients are here. Have we seen these?
"mean marriage will not last long; Lun Chang is a good boy and will die soon. Brothers and uncles must decorate widows more; It is appropriate to be strict with yourself, both young and old. " This is a "nothing" mentality about family status. I despise the constant quarrels within my family. I have distant relatives. They can argue about who is the boss and who is the second at the banquet and refuse to make a fool of themselves. There are still some people who rely on their old age to sell their old age. They think that old people should be in power and don't take young people seriously. If the younger generation is a little disobedient, they will go on the rampage and even threaten to die from pesticides. In addition, I am also disgusted with the differences between pre-marriage and post-marriage online. I don't believe that men and women who love each other will change their faces overnight. Why don't we have a harmonious family? Do modern people pursue spiritual stimulation instead of a peaceful and stable society? When the legend becomes true and nothing exists, will the step taken be a step back?
"Reading is aimed at sages, not Tuke; To be an official, I have a royal country and I count my family. " This is a concept of nothing based on the meaning of life. Zhu regards Qiang Bing, a rich country, as an endless pleasure, instead of winning fame and being touted as a pleasure. Life is alive, learning knowledge is fun, and the rest is gone. Not for him, just for fun, learning from time to time, isn't it? If making money can be regarded as a pleasure on earth and a pleasure of acquiring knowledge, then businessmen will no longer be traitors. If officials can take doing a good job as a pleasure and gain experience on their own, then officials will no longer be greedy and shameless. But everything became nothing. What will life be like if we keep a state of mind of nothing?
Zhu fell in love with nothing, nothing, nothing. In the era of rapid progress, what does he love and what do we love?