Don’t say anything that exposes the shortcomings. Whether it is someone close to you or someone you just met, we must protect the people we are close to and avoid talking about the scars in their hearts. If the other party does not take the initiative to talk about it, Don't mention it either. Because they trust you so much, they don't want you to come and insert the knife. For someone you just met, if you see some shortcomings in the other person, if you tell the other person directly, it is likely to create an awkward atmosphere. Sometimes you think you are being straightforward, but the impression you leave on the other person is that you are brainless. , annoying.
Some people just know how to talk, because they can think about things from others' perspective without embarrassing or disgusting them. What kind of mouth you have, what kind of fate you have. This society is so cruel, and everyone is not your mother. Speaking well is a quality that each of us should have. Before speaking, you must be careful, but when you are serious, you must also think through it. There is no need to be sincere. The downside, sometimes there are benefits to being a little "hypocritical".