1. When communicating with your children, first put aside your so-called parental pretensions such as face, authority, etc., adjust your mentality to a state similar to that of your children, and treat your children as friends from the bottom of your heart. This is especially important. The most important thing is to let the child regard you as a friend and think that you are his true friend at this time. If what you did before was not very good, or you didn't do it at all, then it will definitely be difficult in the beginning, because children are "wary" of their parents, and they will definitely hit a wall when they first try. At this time, you need to look at It is not easy for parents to be patient or deliberately make friends with their children. They must try to read the inner world of their children and truly understand some of their children's behaviors. Don't blindly deny their children. In fact, many of their children's thoughts are Pioneering and innovative. I hope you can become good friends with your child, so that you can understand him better and guide him and educate him with more reasonable methods and attitudes.

2. Pay attention to the occasion and time when communicating feelings with your children, preferably before going to bed, which is when children are in the most stable mood.

3. The language should be concise and concise. In the communication process with children, do not make long speeches. Parents are not the only ones who block their children’s ears and mouths with their long speeches. When children think that communication means long-term preaching, At that time, he lost the opportunity to communicate with his children.