1. Start with his usual behavior.

People are very complex individuals, and it is not easy to really understand a person. If you want to make real friends, only by knowing who he is can you have more choices in the process of making friends.

To understand other people's character is to understand his quality, cultivation and morality. Birds of a feather flock together. Only people with similar temperament can get together and become friends. If the other person's friends are neither fish nor fowl, his quality will not be too high. If you make friends with people who have no moral cultivation, then his own cultivation will not be good. Some people choose their friends according to their personality and temper. People with the same pursuit become good friends; Others come together because of the same hobby. But in any case, as long as two people have the same cultivation and quality, they can become permanent friends. Therefore, to understand a person, you can start by understanding his friends.

To really understand a person, you can also start by observing how he treats others.

When a person is proud, he especially likes to talk about his interaction with others. Therefore, the speaker has no intention, and the listener has a heart. So, these things are more real.

But if he tells you to your face how he used others and cheated others, you should be especially careful with him in the future, because he will probably do the same to you.

There is a kind of person who is very smooth and feels very gregarious. But he often does things face to face and behind his back. He will tell you how good you are and how bad others are. So learn to be smart and pay attention to this kind of person, because he is likely to say your shortcomings behind others' backs.

But there is such a person who will criticize you face to face, point out your shortcomings, but praise the advantages of others in front of you. Maybe you can't accept his honesty, but such a person is very trustworthy.

Besides, we can see whether a person is responsible and selfish by the way he treats his wife, children and parents.

You can also know his attitude towards his family from these details, such as whether he comes home on time, whether he informs his family as soon as possible in case of emergency, whether he feels very kind when talking about his family, and so on. A person who can't take care of his family can't take care of his friends. Such people often only think about themselves, only care about their own gains and losses, and can't think of friends at all. So be careful when making friends, and try not to associate with people who have no family values.

2. Considering from his available aspects.

If you want to see if the friends you make will be useful to you in the future, then the first thing you have to do is to see through other people's hearts. Only in this way can you better distinguish who can use it and which places can be used by you, and then you can decide which methods to use.

It is not easy to see a person's heart, especially the heart of a stranger who meets for the first time. However, no matter how smart a person is, he will unconsciously expose his inner world, but in different degrees and ways. Therefore, he should learn to use his eyes and brain, observe and analyze various superficial phenomena, and thus grasp the essence of the problem.

Here are several ways to help you see through other people's hearts;

1. Look at his heart from the way he usually greets.

Don't underestimate a simple greeting, but it can give you a chance to know each other's heart. You can see if the external manifestations listed below are consistent with the analyzed inner world.

When a person looks at each other and salutes at the same time, he is wary of each other and has some desire to take advantage.

People who dare not look up at each other in communication show that they have a certain sense of inferiority.

Look at his mind from his eyes.

Eyes are the windows of the soul, from which we can see what he wants to say. Eyes can help us perceive the inner world of others. If a person is thinking something, his eyes will immediately reflect it.

Eyes are a very important tool for spiritual communication. Through our eyes, we can exchange views with each other. As I said just now, no matter how beautiful the other person says, his eyes will reflect his inner intentions.

Now, let's see how to see each other's real intentions from their eyes and eyes when they speak.

(1) He talks to you without looking at you.

Sometimes no matter what you say to him, his eyes always look into the distance.

When you talk to someone and get to the point, the other person will look away from time to time, so he won't care what you are saying. He may be planning other things, especially the woman you decided to marry. When you talk to her about serious topics, she tends to look away or look around. If so, we can conclude that she is making various plans in her mind.

(2) staring at you.

When the other person says, "Ah! Now, we can only resign ourselves to fate! " His attitude means that his lies or sins will be exposed, so he will deliberately show such a posturing calm attitude.

(3) When the other person blinks.

A person's heart is worried about something, but when he really can't speak frankly, he will have such an expression. It can be said that he has an inferiority complex towards you, or he is thinking about how to cheat you.

When you meet a friend and see the gloomy eyes of the other person, you must have thought of something unpleasant or unexpected. However, when you are talking to him, if his eyes suddenly light up, it means that your words just touched his heart and aroused his interest.

In the process of communication, we will find that after careful observation; The eyes really convey the inner thoughts. Below, we can see through each other from each other's line of sight.

Some people will glance left and right when they meet for the first time. In this case, it means that they have certain advantages.

Some people suddenly look away when others look at them. Generally speaking, these people have a sense of inferiority, or a feeling of being dwarfed.

When you find his eyes calm, you can know that he has thought of your most urgent thing. You just need to ask him for advice and express your anxiety. If he doesn't understand, it's because it's confidential, so don't ask more questions, just wait for him quietly.

If you find the other person's eyes wandering, at this time, you have to protect yourself by yourself, because he is a kind of indifference to you.

Raise your eyelids and look up at each other to show respect or trust.

When his eyes are quiet or smiling, you should know that he is satisfied with you. To please him, you just need to say a few more compliments at this time. If you ask him for help, this is also a good opportunity. As long as you can put it forward in an appropriate way, the effect is good.

If you look down at each other, it shows that he intends to maintain his dignity towards each other.

If you find the other person's eyes shining and absent-minded, then you can understand that he is tired of you, and it is useless for you to continue talking.

People who have to broaden their horizons, or whose horizons have changed dramatically, are generally uneasy and alert.

If you can't focus on the other person, you can quickly withdraw your eyes, which shows that this person belongs to that introverted personality.

If a person's eyes move around, it means that he is thinking frequently.

Although I miss each other, I always pretend to look around. This not only shows that the other party has strong concerns, but also shows that he doesn't want the other party to know what he means.

Seeking adoption is a satisfactory answer.