These focuses are based on hormone socialization,
In other words, most people or most men's demand for this software is actually about.
On this basis, the sister who uses detectives will inevitably be considered as a date with colored glasses.
Popularize two psychological knowledge for everyone.
1. Survivor bias
A common logical fallacy is that you can only see the results of a certain screening, but don't understand the screening process, so you ignore the key information that has been screened out.
During World War II, it was found that most of the surviving bombers were shot in the fuselage and few in the wings. So people think we should strengthen the fuselage of the plane. In fact, it is not, because the fuselage can fly back after being shot, so the bullets in the fuselage did not affect the return of the plane; However, fewer bullets hit the wing, indicating that the impact of bullets hitting the wing on the aircraft is greater, resulting in the aircraft being unable to return.
Another example: "People who drink wine live longer". Generally, I have investigated those elderly people who live long lives and found that many of them drink wine. But there are more people who often drink but don't live long, and it is impossible for the media to investigate them.
(PS: it's just a simple example, and it doesn't define the efficacy of wine)
Step 2 be old-fashioned
Stereotype mainly refers to a universal and fixed view of a thing or an object, and extends this view to think that this thing or the whole has this characteristic, ignoring individual differences.
For example, in the Disney movie "Zootopia", Nick Fox wanted to be a policeman, but he was ridiculed and discriminated against because of the stereotype of fox in society, so he had to give up on himself and did some stealing. These two psychological concepts are said because
1. No matter how great it is, the answer is for you.
"I am a sister. I found a boyfriend who loves me in exploration. "
"It is said that the exploration and sex are all straight male cancers, and the Oba I know has been together for three years."
"I just make friends while exploring. You men are too superficial."
These answers are basically the prejudice of survivors, because those girls who have made dozens of appointments in exploration, or who have been cheated in exploration for the purpose of love, will not share them publicly under this answer.
2. Society has formed a rigid prejudice against exploration.
"Exploration is software about guns."
Of course, I know these comments are biased and not objective.
Rational people certainly realize that there are many people who hold the appeal of purely making friends when using exploration.
However, no matter how you describe your purely social needs, you can't change the stereotype of exploration in the whole society.