Loving yourself is more important than making friends

Seeing that you asked about "introversion and low self-esteem", then I want to tell you that there are many people with different personalities in the world. There is no good or bad personality in itself. Each personality has its own advantages. For example, introverts may think more, take care of other people's emotions, have deeper emotional abilities, etc. Therefore, you need to constantly discover your own strengths, love your own strengths, and like yourself. When we like ourselves, when this kind of confidence radiates, others will also appreciate it.

Having many friends in college does not mean that they all know each other

In fact, the purpose of going to college is not to make friends. Of course, having more friends is also good. But think about it, some people are indeed lonely amidst the excitement. Some relationships that seem to have many friends may not be very nutritious and may not necessarily be intimate. The fire in the social circle does not mean anything. I once heard a saying that I thought made sense, and I would like to share it with you: "Whether a person has a wide network of people does not depend on how many people he knows, but how many people know him."

At the same time, there are many ways to make friends in the university, including dormitory relationships, relationships between seniors and juniors, teacher-student relationships, relationships inside and outside departments, classes, student organizations and societies, and so on. In the university, there will be a variety of club activities and student activities. Even if you are introverted, you can bravely try to choose activities that interest you to participate in, such as debate, poetry, hip-hop, musical instruments, taekwondo, calligraphy... Photography Department , office departments, economic departments... In various activities, you, an introvert, can still get to know many, many different people. It is also good to gradually practice your online and offline communication skills~

Improving self-connotation is more important than making friends

College is rich and colorful. Plan your four years of college in advance. What will you do after college? What do you want to do in college? Read more books and make more use of the resources in the university. These will definitely become valuable assets. When there is connotation, friends will come.