As a communication medium, wine plays a unique role in welcoming guests and seeing off guests, gathering friends, communicating with each other, and conveying friendship. Exploring the "mystery" of speech on the wine table will help Your communication success.
Most banquets have many guests, so you should try to talk about topics that most people can participate in, so as to gain the approval of most people. Because individuals have different interests, hobbies, and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased, so as to avoid being self-centered, talking about everything, going off-topic, and ignoring everyone else.
In particular, try not to whisper to others in a low voice, which will give others a sense of mystery and cause them to feel jealous of "you two are the only one", which will affect the effect of drinking.
Most banquets have a theme, which is the purpose of drinking. When attending a banquet, you should first look around at the expressions of everyone present and distinguish priorities. Don't drink just for the sake of drinking and lose a good opportunity to make friends. Don't let some grandstanding drunks disrupt the banquet.
The wine table can show a person's talent, cultivation and communicative demeanor. Sometimes a witty and humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make them like you invisibly. Therefore, you should know when to say what to say, use appropriate language, and be witty and humorous.
We often encounter the phenomenon of persuading people to drink at the wine table. Some people always like to treat the wine shop as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more.
"A hero is judged by drinking", which is okay for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink a little. Sometimes excessive persuasion to drink will completely destroy the original relationship between friends.
If you want to get everyone's appreciation at the wine table, you must learn to observe words and emotions. When communicating with others, you need to understand people's hearts and be able to play both sides of the situation well, so that you can play your role well at the wine table.