As the saying goes, you rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. Having more friends makes traveling easier. If you make friends all over the world, you will be able to have both sides of the situation and live an open life. Even if there are ups and downs, there will be people who will pave the way and build bridges for you. They will help you get through it smoothly at critical moments.
So what should you pay attention to when making friends? The more the merrier, right?
I remember this scene in Jet Li's version of "Huo Yuanjia". Huo Yuanjia became crazy about martial arts and aspired to become the number one in Tianjin. The life and death battles made him famous far and wide. Countless people came to his sect out of admiration, and he was also very forthright, accepting all comers regardless of their character, and even treated them as brothers.
As a result, because one of the disciples molested Master Qin Wu’s concubine, he was scolded by Master Qin Wu. Huo Yuanjia did not care about the indiscretion and had to stand up for his disciple without knowing what was going on. As a result, he killed Master Qin by mistake, leaving a lifetime of regrets.
The one person who can be called his best friend in the whole play should be Nong Jinsun, who pays off his debts, advises him to make friends rationally, advises him not to be competitive, and fully supports him in fighting with Westerners. Bring glory to the country. It's completely different from that group of fair-weather friends.
In life, we always meet many people, but everyone has different understanding of life due to different birth environment, growth experience, education, etc., and not all people can Become friends. Therefore, there are still some things you need to pay attention to when making friends.
To examine whether a friend is good or not, his character is particularly important. Making friends is to make progress and improve yourself. This kind of improvement is not monetary, but has the same values ????and attitude towards life, and can communicate happily. We do not expect our friends to be saints with perfect morals, but we cannot make friends with those who are morally corrupt and lawless.