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Mosuo people, 13 years old, left the daughter country of primitive matriarchal society and entered Shanghai Conservatory of Music. After graduation, he was transferred to the Central National Song and Dance Troupe and became the youngest national soloist in China.
1990 left China for the United States; After that, she worked as a model in Italy and traveled around Europe. He has given lectures and performed in Japanese, Singaporean and Taiwan Province provinces.
1997 started writing and publishing, including Out of the Girl Country, Back to the Girl Country, Women's Goods-A Woman's Fragrance, Women's Travel-Seeing the World with Eyes, China Red Meets Norwegian Blue, Women's Dream-Misty Rain is the End of the World, you can. His works have been translated into many languages and sold well all over the world.
Now he is a columnist for Fashion China. He often travels between new york, Peking and Lugu Lake, engaging in writing and participating in some public welfare activities.
A Mosuo woman who walks out of Lugu Lake has the material and love that all women pursue in their heyday. She is a model woman with enough wisdom and experience to teach women how to be women.
Nanmu went to the university to give a speech and faced hundreds of pairs of eyes. She was supposed to talk about national culture, but suddenly she changed the topic and became a woman who wanted to be friends with women.
Namun said that women should make friends with women and girls should help girls. We seldom communicate with our mother. My mother won't exchange love with you, and you don't want to talk openly with her, but abroad will. We have no role models.
When a mother copied the article "Can you hug me" written by Namu in "China Red Meets Norwegian Blue" and put it in her daughter's schoolbag, her daughter finished reading it and said "Mom, I love you" for the first time. Nanmu was moved and happy. In fact, Nanmu hopes that there will be more and more warmth and communication between women.
"I have harvested all the way and paid more than I got. Lazy women have no future. "
/kloc-when she was 0/3 years old, Namu returned to Beijing with a prize, and the mountains of Lugu Lake could no longer hold her "flying" heart. Finally, one day I told my grandmother that I was going to the city. Her whimsy and stubbornness frightened her and beat her at a loss, so she wiped her tears and ran to the mountain. Grandma couldn't catch up, so she picked up a stone and hit her. She just ran out. It was the first time that she took the initiative to control her own destiny. I brought six boiled eggs, but I have to walk in the virgin forest for five days and five nights. She sleeps in caves or trees when she is hungry, and eats wild fruits and drinks spring water when she is thirsty. When she is afraid of being attacked by wild animals at night, she sleeps in caves or trees. She sang folk songs to drive away loneliness and fear, crying and walking while singing. One dark night, she saw a ray of light in the distance and crawled in that direction in the mud. The next day, she found that the road she had walked started from the edge of a cliff. If she is not careful, she will go to rolling in the deep.
After graduating from Shanghai Conservatory of Music, Namm wants to develop in Beijing. It doesn't matter that she has no background. At that time, everyone thought it was impossible, but she did it. This extraordinary shot is amazing, but it is the result of her going back and forth between Shanghai and Beijing for 3 1 time to find a job. Last time Namu came back to school from Beijing, she didn't eat anything except a thermos. She crushed instant noodles, put them in water, and then shook them to eat.
Now Namun can live a fairy-like life with her Norwegian prince by the lake in Geneva, Switzerland, but how difficult is it for her to go to Beijing to write a book? Look at her "sorry for herself": "I have never been out of the house or downstairs. After finishing the last stroke, I ran to the mirror and took off my robe to see if I was moldy. Break the pen in your hand and throw it into the dustbin. Two months! "
Namm said: I like my life. Sometimes I run a lot and I'm tired. This time I went back to my hometown for more than a month, and my skin was sunburned by the hot sun on the plateau. But I don't regard it as suffering. My energy is too strong. The living Buddha has nine heads. I don't have nine, but I have four.
Therefore, it is unreasonable for a girl to be jealous of that wood and be sarcastic. Which girl can live alone with a cup of coffee and two pieces of bread on New Year's Eve? But Namun can. While you were wandering around, she was still working.
"People must be kind, especially women. They must be kind, friendly, grateful and grateful. "
Nanmu has three role models: Grandma, Mother Teresa devoted to charity, and Audrey Hepburn. Her quality is kindness.
In America, Namu was introduced by a friend to work in a karaoke bar. On a rainy day, an old man came in, and his clothes were all wet. Seeing that the karaoke bar was not open yet, he hesitated and was in a dilemma. Seeing that no one was in pain, Namm warmly invited him in. When the old man sat down, she asked him if he wanted something to drink. The old man refused. She thought he had no money, so she invited him to drink juice. In order to make the old man happy, Namu sang him a China song. When leaving, the wood took an umbrella to the old man.
Three nights later, the old man came to the bar again and told Namu his story: he participated in the Vietnam War when he was young, and later repented and reformed, and adopted three Vietnamese orphans and raised them. Later, they learned that he served in Vietnam and left him one by one. The loneliness of the old man infected Namm. She asked the old man's phone number and invited him to the party she and her friends held. In the long run, they became good friends.
At the end of the story, one day, the old man took Namu to a beautiful house in the most upscale living area in San Francisco, saying it was a gift for her. Of course, Namun didn't want to, but she couldn't beat the old man. Namun wants to rent both. Only when Namu went to the house again the next day, she saw a check left by the old man. The old man said thank you. "You brought warmth and love to my old age."
It sounds like a fable, but the story is true. There is nothing strange about it. Respecting the old and loving the young is the virtue in Mosuo girl's south bones. Nanmu's mother-in-law said Nanmu was generous and willing to pay, so she loved her.
Namu won't forget to fly to Paris to pick out two new clothes in the shop of a girl aged 19. The clothes she designed are very good and the workmanship is very good, but in Paris, which is full of famous brands, she is a little insecure. She needs encouragement and cash flow. What makes Namu most satisfied is that the newly-built Hope Primary School that she paid for has already started, and the ancient city of Shangri-La will have a sound of reading, and many people will find jobs for it. Walking out of Gucheng Primary School, where she served as honorary principal, felt like a cloud and clean.