I think, no matter what kind of environment, if you want to make friends, you have to be sincere, you can't make friends for the sake of making friends, you have to build on the basis of equality between the two sides, you have to respect each other, and you have to maintain the relationship between two people, not to flatter each other but to attract each other.

Compared with middle school, it is more difficult for universities to make sincere friends. In college, everyone has grown up and experienced the baptism of some people's hearts, but they have also lost some childhood innocence and become more wary of others. No one is willing to pay sincerely. I'm afraid it's not worth it I have a small abacus in my heart, which belongs to others, but if you want to make friends with someone, you must first show it to her sincerely. It will take a long time. She will naturally see your sincerity in making friends. In the face of interests, of course, we should try our best to put our friends first, consider each other more, tolerate each other more, don't haggle over every ounce, strive for who is higher and who is lower, and respect each other. The two should be equal. If you want to find a true friend, you should first agree on the three views. Only two people with the same three views can have the same topic and sense of fit. You can't be a true friend if you don't have the same views. Making friends can't just ask for something in return. Whether it is blindly giving or just seeking return, it is not an equal relationship. There is a reward for giving, and a true friend won't let you give without giving. There are many college friends who never talk about their feelings or tell each other anything unhappy except having dinner and class together every day, so they are not real friends. A true friend will have endless words and dare to tell each other no matter how shameful. You know she won't laugh at you, but she will love you dearly.