In addition to family and lovers, there are also friends in a person's life, and Su Shi was always accompanied by friends throughout his life. Friendship is a feeling that Su Shi can't let go of.

1. Even if you have different life directions, you can still be friends with whom you can chat

Su Shi is tolerant and generous by nature. Among his many friends, not all of them share the same goals with him. , there are also people who disagree with him in the workplace, such as Wang Anshi. They were politically hostile to each other. Wang Anshi promoted reforms, but Su Shi always rejected them, but even this did not prevent them from becoming friends.

Wang Anshi retired to Nanjing after the failure of the reform, and Su Shi was also wandering in the Jianghuai area after being demoted because of the Wutai Poetry Case. When passing by Nanjing, he went to visit Wang Anshi.

Wang Anshi rode a donkey to visit Su Shi by the river. Su Shi came out to greet Wang Anshi without even having time to put on his hat. He apologized to Wang Anshi and told him that he was wearing simple clothes and came to meet him. Wang Anshi replied to him Etiquette is not designed for people like them.

The two smiled at each other and talked happily. They also left behind "Four Wonders of Cijing Gongyun", the third of which records the story of Wang Anshi persuading Su Shi to buy a house and live in Nanjing.

In addition to Wang Anshi, there was another political enemy, Zhang Dun, who also wanted to harm Su Shi because of his different political opinions. Later, he was demoted and Su Shi was reinstated. His son was worried that Su Shi would retaliate against them and his son, so he wrote to Su Shi to express his feelings. Worry. Su Shi didn't have any thoughts of revenge. In his reply to Zhang Dun's son, he told him how to recuperate his father's body and gave him medicine as a gift.

Although Su Shi experienced ups and downs in his life and was hurt, his tolerant and kind heart never changed, and he gained the sincere affection of his friends. Even Mr. Lin Yutang sincerely praised Su Shi.

Being a human being means exchanging heart for heart and emotion for emotion; it is also about repaying evil with virtue and repaying evil with good. The distance between hearts lies in understanding and sincerity.

2. No matter what our status is, the friendship between friends is the most real

Su Shi made a lot of friends. Among his friends were not only high-ranking officials and nobles, but also many civilian friends. . In Su Shi's heart, there is no distinction between high and low friends. He treats them equally and is sincerely reciprocated by his friends.

Su Shi had many civilian friends in his life, such as the Wang brothers in Huangzhou and other people from the market. Although their social status was relatively low, Su Shi was equally happy with them.

Among these civilian friends, the most unforgettable one is Nest Valley. Chaogu is Su Shi's hometown friend who played with him since he was a child. He and Su Shi's brothers have a very good relationship. Although he himself had an ordinary life and liked to do chivalry and justice, he never thought of asking the two brothers Su Shi, who were officials, to help him achieve a better life.

After Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou, Chaogu made a special trip to cook various delicious hometown dishes for Su Shi to comfort him. More than ten years later, the Su Shi brothers were demoted again. Chaogu decided to visit the two brothers regardless of the ridicule of others and the long journey.

After seeing Su Che who was demoted to Meizhou, Chaogu still wanted to go to Hainan, thousands of miles away, to visit Su Shi, but Su Che's dissuasion had no effect.

Just like this, an old man in his seventies walked thousands of miles to Hainan in order to visit his friend Su Shi. However, he encountered many difficulties on the way. His money was stolen and his money was stolen. He fell ill due to the fatigue of the journey and eventually died in a foreign country.

Su Shi later heard that he was extremely sad. If someone could treat him well from the bottom of his heart, even if life is not easy, he would still have a warm memory left in his life.

Friendship does not distinguish between high and low, and true love is revealed even more in times of adversity. In each of our lives, we need such beautiful and sincere emotions.

3. To be happy in life, you must be happy, and happy moments must be accompanied by good friends

When you especially want to share something you like with someone, the person in your heart is It should be someone who holds a very important place in your heart, right? We want to share our happiness and joy with him, and we want to talk heart-to-heart with him. This kind of friendship can only be found between close friends.

In Su Shi's story, if you want to find such a friend, it must be Zhang Huaimin, who is envied by everyone, the person who was with Su Shi in "A Night Tour at Chengtian Temple".

The bright moonlight night cannot resist the enthusiasm of close friends to watch the moon together.

Imagine that on such a night with the bright moon hanging in the sky, in the silent Chengtian Temple, on the dense bamboo forest path, two figures walking side by side, the breeze blows on their faces, the night is as cool as water, or there are a few voices. The buzzing of insects is in the ears. Even if Su Shi was a little worried during the day, he would be relieved a lot by being with his friends.

"What night is without moon? Where is there no bamboo and cypress? But there are few idle people like me and my ears." Each of us needs a friend like Zhang Huaimin. We don't have to be around, but I need When it's your time, you will definitely be there.

Su Shi’s life had many twists and turns, but I believe his life journey was also very lively because of his benevolent heart, which allowed him to gain many friends. Life is not lonely because he has Many friends.

As the book says: When I think of Su Shi, I don’t think of him alone, but of many people, including Su Shi and the friends who surrounded Su Shi. They were illuminated by Su Shi and also illuminated Su Shi.

Because of their care and love, Su Shi's life had more emotional experiences and fun, making his life more colorful.

A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find. May the tree of life of you and me be watered by friendship, and may both have Zhang Huaimin who can accompany us and become Zhang Huaimin in the lives of others.