Unless he has a strong inner construction and can sit there coolly, he will feel a little uneasy and feel stupid sitting alone. And the girls present will also pay attention to the uneasiness revealed by your body language and expression. Plus, you are a person, and the girl's impression of you is already very poor before she opens her mouth. Even if you see a girl you want to know, you may not have the courage to go up and strike up a conversation.
So at that time, before my own heart was built, I found three ways:
The first is to bring a good brother directly, and then he and I can chat with each other there. It was interesting at first, because they are my good brothers, so we are all familiar with each other, but there is nothing to talk about. However, all kinds of girls in the bar and so on are obviously more attractive to us than the long-lost brother in front of us, so at first I just sat there and looked around, looking at the girls here and there. Later, it was found that the potential communication information revealed by this move was not good either. Girls think it's just boring for you two men to hook up with girls in bars, but you're not daring enough to be obscene.
In fact, men and women go to bars to have fun and have fun. You two gentlemen sat there without talking, looking dull and bored. All you know is that you look around without being happy. Who wants to play with you?
So this won't work! Let me think first: I need to talk to him first. Even if you are familiar with it, there is always something to talk about, and you can talk about topics that men are interested in. Sometimes, when we can't think of any topic, we can talk to the girls present and get in touch with cold reading. Just watch a girl guess her personality, see what she thinks, and so on, so there are endless topics with girls.
When my brother and I really talked, the effect was different immediately. First of all, our emotional state of each other began to rise and we were full of energy. The girls around us can not only feel it, but also think that the two of us may just come to the bar to drink and chat after work, unlike hooking up with girls in the bar. Therefore, when we are chatting happily, it will be very easy to meet girls. At that time, it was obvious that girls' attitude towards us was completely different from before. Even when we were chatting happily, the girls next to us would take the initiative to join in and talk to us in turn.
The second method was forced by my friend. Sometimes he has something to do or just doesn't accompany me. I have no choice. I have to practice all the time to understand, so I have to bite the bullet and go. At this time, the routine of chatting between two people can't be played anymore. What should I do? So I found a chat partner on the spot and made a new friend by the way. So don't just think about getting to know girls. Generally speaking, it is smart to meet boys first in a place like a bar. Some people may be waiting for friends, so it is also valuable for him to talk to him about his own views first. As soon as you speak, his friends blend into his circle of friends as soon as they arrive.
At that time, I went to the bar almost every day because I specialized in this matter. Then the bartender in the bar met me. As long as he sees me, go straight, and come up first without me ordering. So a venue
On the one hand, you can chat with the bartender and become friends. On the other hand, the more you go to a place, the more people you know, and your social value in this place will increase.
Think about it. As soon as the girl saw you walk in, the bartender greeted you, and then he brought it to you without saying anything. If you want wine, you can walk in and sit casually like your living room. Then the girls present may have a good impression on you through the subtle exchange of information, and you will easily get to know them again.
Later, I went alone. At first, I was going to order a glass of wine and chat with any boy. At this time, a beautiful woman just behind me asked the waiter to prepare some wine on the wine list. I think she looked at the wine list for a long time and then said, the red wine here is good. Then she started talking to me like this. Later, I found it easier for me to chat with any girl that night. What's going on here? Later, I learned that this is actually a kind of "social proof". Girls will naturally like me more easily when they see other beautiful women chatting with me, and their attitude towards me will be more friendly and enthusiastic. This is the third way. It is better to find a female friend to chat with you and be beautiful.
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