On Saturday, March is full of spring flowers, full of spring, the wind is light, and the sunshine is just right. Sister Feng sent me a pleasing view of Huaiyin Park. I was drinking tea in the store while waiting for my friends to come, so I chatted on WeChat.

Sister Feng said, "You are almost a genius, and you like it everywhere."

I replied, "I'm fine, but I have a better personality."

Maybe I have experienced too many gains and losses, and I am indifferent. I am neither flattering nor indifferent, which is my mentality of dealing with people now.

"I think I am indifferent by nature and too cold." Sister Feng spat out a long sentence.

But I think Sister Feng is an intellectual, kind, diligent and enterprising woman I seldom meet. She is cheerful and has a larger ideological pattern than other women. She is a good friend worthy of making friends with her heart.

I went back to: "It's hard to find a bosom friend. If someone understands your goodness, it's worth your association. In my heart, you are the best."

Sister Feng's laughter is always crisp, like a lark singing. "One day, my son said that a person with a strong heart can live well wherever he goes, just like you." Look, this woman is feeling again.

"Yes, you all left, leaving me alone, still alive and kicking." I can't help laughing!

I remember when we came here with dreams and wanted to open a new market. Unexpectedly, I was left alone in this strange market.

Sister Feng sighed and said, "There are always trade-offs in life."

I can understand it, but in retrospect, I feel a little sad. I have been sad for a year. I remember once in the tea house next door, watching the lively atmosphere everywhere, I suddenly ran outside the store and couldn't help crying.

Feeling that kind of emotion, Sister Feng said, "I always think about your difficulties."

I bowed my head and smiled and quickly typed two lines: "Everything is fine now. I adjusted for two or three months last year and learned to drive, but my mood is still clear this year."

"Adversity makes people strong." Sister Feng sent several praises!

I said indifferently, "There will always be people in this world who have a worse life than you. We should cherish the present, and our mentality determines whether we are happy."

"You are so young, it is not easy to live such an open-minded life."

"Although young and experienced, from childhood to adulthood, experience makes people grow up. It is not easy to face the real world. Some people will complain and others will push forward. Everything depends on our mentality."

"It's rare to have a bright and beautiful heart after a rough experience."

"haha, this is probably the most rare quality in me."

I chatted with Sister Feng sentence by sentence. I think life should be grateful. I remember Feng Zikai's golden advice:

The world is noisy, fame and fortune come and go, let go of impetuousness, and feel at ease. Life is hard to find peace of mind. Only when you are not surprised by humiliation can you be peaceful and complacent. Only when you have no intention of staying or staying can you be optimistic and indifferent to the situation.

Su Shi said in Dingfeng: "Looking back at the bleak place, there is no rain or shine.".

On my birthday this year, I received many blessings, red envelopes, and one party after another. "I envy you very much, so happy." A good friend said.

"Yes, it's all carefully arranged by everyone, which surprises me. I really feel that life is so happy." I replied with a smile ...

My friend said, "I wanted to make some more friends, but I found that when I treated you sincerely, others didn't take you as a friend at all. Slowly, I stopped taking the initiative to make friends! I treat the moon with sincerity, but the moon shines on the ditch. "

has my mood completely changed in the last two years? Unconsciously, I see many people's things more clearly. I really treat others, neither too much performance, nor asking for anything in return. Unconsciously, I have a lot of friends around me, and I usually don't contact much.

Maybe, I have never thought about giving in return, so my natural state of mind is a little calmer. Others are kind to me, and I am grateful. Others are not good to me, so I don't care. That's just a casual acquaintance. If I have a thorough understanding, I will know how to cherish those who are good to us and let go of those who are not good to us.

Sometimes, you will be sad, you will be sad, and you will get drunk. What's wrong with letting go of your physical discomfort and letting yourself indulge occasionally?

when you wake up in the morning, you should be full of blood, because there are still many beautiful things waiting for us to do and many worthy people waiting for us to get to know each other.

You will find that the annual rings of time never stop.

a Zen poem says, "Let go of the dust atmosphere in the world, and there will be no fire and ice competition in your chest;" Eliminate the contempt in your heart, and there will be a moon in front of you. "

people are happy not because they have more, but because they care less.

On every surface where the wind is light and the clouds are light, there is an unruly soul. "Don't be afraid of power, don't be tempted by the situation, and have a great wall in your heart, which can stop the tide."