In dating websites, there are different types of scams aimed at male users and female users. The basic type of cheating man is bar/rice garden type. Their usual trick is to add you QQ as soon as they come up. The avatar is particularly sexy, which makes you think that ONS may happen. When chatting with each other, they will say: Oh, where are you? Let's meet. Then make an appointment somewhere, usually a bar. If you see your date near Sanlitun (Beijing only), there is no doubt that the other party must be a bar owner.

There are many types of fraud against female users, probably because women are easily deceived ... Common types are widowed successful fraud and flower basket fraud, and widowed successful fraud is easy to understand. The flower basket swindler is like this: the other party often looks for so-called "relatives" to make friends have confidence in their identity, status and financial resources, and then asks the other party to buy flowers at a designated flower shop or directly remit money to the account on the grounds that the company opens a shop.

Of course, there are many other types of fraud, such as air tickets, loan fraud, winning traps and so on. And some of them are very similar to SMS fraud. Normal people can see that I believe most people will not be cheated.

I believe the problem should be about full-time emotional swindlers, who cheat money first and then cheat money. There are such people, but they are difficult to guard against, because they don't have the characteristics of ordinary liars and don't like to take the ordinary road. To guard against these people, they need to use their brains.

According to my understanding, in the dating site, we should first protect ourselves. The first point is not to easily disclose your contact information to the person you just talked about, and then you must not let sperm go to the brain during the conversation (for male users and female users, eggs go to the brain? ), photos can be fake or PS. Often when you see a beautiful girl or handsome boy, you will give him a 50% discount in your mind, so you must be rational.

If you want to meet, you can, be sure to find downtown areas, busy lots, places where consumption is not so high, whether male users or female users. Before meeting, it is suggested to communicate with instant chat software, from which we can see some clues.

As for the latter, I don't know, because some loverboy just catch big fish for a long time. At first, you can't see his/her purpose at all. Such a person is really unpredictable.

Having said that, it may give people an illusion that there are many scammers on dating websites, which are unreliable ... Although I have been in this business, I can say responsibly that there are scammers on dating websites, but not all of them are scammers. My philosophy has always been that if you have a sincere desire to find the other half and comprehensive anti-fraud knowledge, you can find your love here. Match, the largest dating site abroad, is very good. Don't think it's lame for foreigners to go to dating websites to find husbands and wives.