Then why are young people unwilling to get married? Many people say: I don't seem interested in making friends or getting married. It's fine to be alone. This idea is not a case, but many people can't help but choose.
Psychologically speaking, making friends, interpersonal relationships and intimate relationships are all derived from people's social attributes, that is, satisfying emotional needs, life needs and value needs.
From this perspective, whether young people are afraid of marriage or for economic reasons, they choose to be single because they lack a sense of value or because their needs are out of touch.
In other words, more and more people are looking for souls and life partners. If they can't find them, they would rather be single, so it seems that they can understand more and more single behaviors. Of course, this is only an emotional need, on the other hand, it is also the economic pressure of young people.
More and more young people are a generation that can't make ends meet, and they can only live by "gnawing at the old". Imagine, how dare a person who can't even support himself try to get married and face the future family?
It is precisely because of economic pressure and emotional pressure that more and more young people choose to be single or have boyfriend and girlfriend, but they are only ambiguous, neither falling in love nor talking about marriage.
It can also be said that the hardships and difficulties of the post-80 s generation have been fully seen, and young people have just seen the difficulties of the post-80 s generation. For example, I dare not rest, spend money, get sick, or even be willful. The bitterness of the post-80 s is reflected in three points, which are also very real:
First, in all the good times, I didn't catch up with the post-80s generation. Before college students were assigned jobs, the post-80s generation could only be self-reliant, and the house price was also very high, which not only caused great pressure on life, but also on economy. No wonder some people say: after 80, they charged tuition when they went to school, but they didn't deserve it when they graduated; If you don't distribute it, you can finally find a job to make money, and the house price has gone up again.
One step can't keep up, one step can't keep up, so only the miserable post-80 s is left.
Second, the post-80s age is embarrassing. The youngest is 30 years old after 80, and 30-40 years old is very embarrassing. People of this age mean that you can no longer muddle along like people in their twenties, nor can you have the capital to "live quietly" like those born after 70 s and 60 s.
For the younger generation, the post-80s generation is a big tree. They have to work hard to grow up in order to provide a steady supply for their children and grandchildren. For parents, it is more important to bear the responsibility of raising and caring.
Third, the future of the post-80s generation is worrying. In addition to conditions and age, there is a future for the post-80s generation. In this highly competitive era, many young people in their early twenties are particularly prominent. They can not only endure hardships, but also stay up late. However, the post-80s generation has reached a calm level in both physical quality and inner emotions.
It can be said that it is difficult everywhere, and it is on thin ice. If you are not careful, you will be eliminated. In order not to go out, you have to bite the bullet and carry it on.
From this perspective, the post-80s generation is indeed a very bitter generation. Their sufferings are sometimes understandable, sometimes unspeakable, and sometimes they recognize "cowardice" and bow to life.