It's not that we care so much about each other's looks, but that people have a process of adapting and accepting their looks, that is, ugly people are acceptable as long as they look at them for a long time and have psychological endurance. But if you don't go through an adaptation process, it is easy to have a psychological gap when you meet, so that even ordinary friends can't do it. Countless "seeing the light die" predecessors have proved a truth, and netizens who love each other must exchange photos with each other before meeting.
You must expose your true situation.
To intervene rashly without knowing the true identity of the other party may put both parties in a painful situation. Meeting each other rashly without knowing each other's real situation has also caused some ironic consequences. A female student went on a date with a net friend and found that the other person was just a primary school student. After two months of online dating, they didn't know they were brothers and sisters ... such an extreme event has happened.
3. Meet again after chatting online for more than 100 hours.
Both sides of online dating have to go through long-term communication, so that their pure spiritual and emotional communication can stand the test of time, and then consider further development to reality. Nowadays, many people take pleasure in meeting netizens of the opposite sex. They meet in a day or two, and at the same time, they have a strong purpose. The overall success rate of "blind date" meeting is extremely low, and it also loses the original connotation of online chat. Establishing feelings that attract each other is also short-lived and superficial. If you want to develop a serious love, in-depth understanding and communication is essential.
4. Don't let your feelings die in pursuit of perfection.
There is no need to face the trivial love of life, but we can only vent our feelings but can't meet the test of life together. In the end, this is not a really healthy and long-lasting relationship. As a form of cultivating feelings, online dating always returns to reality in the end, deliberately avoiding meeting each other, and it is very likely that both parties will suffer in the end, rather than obtaining the effect of Platonic feelings.
Don't choose a secluded place to meet.
Remember, see you during the day and wait for the sun to come out; See you tonight. At least it's brightly lit. Online parties held by department stores, McDonald's, crowded squares or a website or forum are the best places for girls to meet netizens. Popularity can not only dilute the embarrassment of meeting, but also prevent malicious perverts from doing anything bad. Even if the other party proposes to go to a secluded place to "increase the mood", it should be sternly refused.
6. Be careful when you meet for the first time.
No matter how much we emphasized the spiritual communication on the network platform before, meeting is, after all, the first step to turn an illusory relationship into reality. Therefore, no matter how sweet and intimate the online relationship is, there must be a process of mutual adaptation when we really meet. At the same time, considering the reality, both men and women can be properly reserved and cautious in this situation, and they can also protect themselves to the maximum extent.
7. The distance between the two sides shall not exceed100km.
The same environment will make the further development after online dating smoother and make face-to-face communication easier. If the purpose of this love is to make friends online, then you'd better choose one who is in the same city as yourself. After all, a beautiful love will always develop online, and distance will always be an unavoidable obstacle to feelings. On the other hand, China Telecom and China Railway will never reduce their prices because they have lovers. The plane wanted to, but dared not.
8. Don't come straight to the point and ask to meet.
At present, the popularity of the Internet has made it a convenient communication platform for almost everyone, so there are all kinds of people you meet online. There may be people who can go hand in hand, but there must be some people just playing in it. Online dating is to establish a deeper understanding and spiritual communication with each other. Therefore, those who ask for a date as soon as they meet can at least not say that they are serious about each other's communication. "Do you have any photos?" "You are really good-looking." "Let's meet." It is often the "three axes" of many men on the Internet.
9. Ask for name, address and telephone number directly.
Don't give your name, address, phone number or any information that may affect your safety unless you have a deep understanding of the netizens on qq, and remember "Don't talk to strangers". The network is a game of the mind, and those who care about the most authentic "data" must have ulterior motives.
10, prepare for the worst.
Don't think the worst, men and women in love can't even accept that their lover is mortal. But he may be the humble man sitting on your left on the bus, or the girl with a face of youth bean across the street. He dug his nose, and her voice. Simply using the magic of love to reduce the image of lovers to the lowest standard, only by looking at it bit by bit can virtue appear. Although he hasn't changed at all, the ending of the story may change. Don't underestimate psychological warfare.
1 1. It's best to communicate by phone before meeting.
Words can express some information and content such as personal character cultivation hobbies, but after all, it is a relatively flat and thin means of information exchange. Simple text chat may become a way for some people to hide their identity. Telephone communication in front of you can at least determine some basic personal information of the other party, and also lay the foundation for further contact and be mentally prepared.