Detailed explanation of prerequisites for interpersonal communication
Respect: self-esteem and respect for others. Self-esteem means respecting yourself in all kinds of situations, maintaining your dignity and not giving up on yourself. Respecting others means respecting others' living habits, hobbies, personalities and values. Only by respecting others can you get their respect.
Trust: the two sides of communication should trust each other and should not cheat, bully or betray each other.
Second, the importance of interpersonal communication
Interpersonal communication promotes self-awareness. In our communication activities, sometimes there will be a certain gap between the two evaluations, and many people will be very annoyed. This requires us to be good at adjusting the two aspects of evaluation and improving our comprehensive quality.
Interpersonal communication promotes the socialization process. Interpersonal communication is the inevitable product and basic premise of social development. Without all kinds of network relationships formed in the process of interpersonal communication and all kinds of social roles played by people, society is not a society, and development is impossible.
Methods of making friends
First, sense motive and look for similarities between * * *
A person's mental state, spiritual pursuit, hobbies, etc. are all more or less manifested in their expressions, clothes, speech, manners, etc. As long as you are good at observing, you will find your similarities.
Second, the similarities between exploration and dialogue and reconnaissance
Two strangers value each other. In order to break the silence, it spoke first. Some people start by asking each other about their native place and identity and get information from them. Some people spy on each other by listening to their accents and words; Some start with actions, while helping each other do things that are urgently needed, while trying to open oral communication.
Third, listen to people's introduction and guess the same point.
When you visit a friend's house and meet a stranger, as a host who is familiar with both sides, you will immediately introduce the relationship between the two sides and the host, their respective identities, work units, and even personality characteristics and hobbies. A careful person can immediately find out what the other person has in common with himself from the introduction.
Fourth, think about dialogue and explore similarities.
In order to find the similarities between strangers and ourselves, we can pay attention to analyzing and pondering when people who need to communicate talk with others, or ponder each other's words when they talk with themselves, so as to find the similarities.