Recently, it was reported that a 23-year-old female college student committed suicide by jumping off a building in Wu Hanyou, Hubei Province, and the girl said in her suicide note that she was killed by her boyfriend PUA, who was eight years older than herself. After identification, it was learned that the female college student committed suicide by depression, and her family did not know that she had a boyfriend. It's a pity that I lost my life at this age. It should have been a good time, but I lost my life and felt heartache for this girl.
In the past, there have been similar cases, and the girl was finally unbearable by her boyfriend PUA and chose to give up her life. How terrible it is to think about this one by one, it is creepy. It's terrible to meet such a man accidentally because of making friends when you could have had a wonderful life in your prime. Therefore, in the process of making friends, we should be extremely cautious, don't trust anyone easily, and always consider our own safety.
what is PUA? What does PUA mean? Pick up artists? Its original meaning means that men have received systematic and theoretical study and practice, and through these, their emotional intelligence is constantly improving. Later, it means that these people will be particularly fascinated by people of the opposite sex, and some women will be particularly obedient to men. At present, with the rapid development in the form of some organizations, many people may accidentally become victims of these PUA, and it is difficult to judge their true colors. When they really judge, many people can't control themselves, which is a terrible behavior.
Therefore, in real life, we should strengthen our self-protection, learn to protect our own safety and try to avoid PUA. First of all, we should keep ourselves at all times, don't trust others easily, believe in yourself. Second, we must learn to be rational, have our own judgment and mind, learn to respect the facts and do things, not to panic when things happen, and to think clearly about how to do it. Then, learn to love yourself and be your best self. Don't change yourself easily because of other people's ideas and don't be influenced by others. You are you and your best self.