The reason why you feel unsociable is because you are unsociable.

Some people know each other in an instant, talking and laughing with everyone. What do you think it is?

In fact, personality is as external as appearance. If you are man show, people can tell at a glance. Who doesn't want to be with outgoing and humorous people? Who wants to be with a worried and heavily guarded person?

When you are considering whether the other party regards you as a friend, the other party has actually refused.

The only way is to default that everyone is your friend, put aside all suspicions, doubts and so on, and treat others as your real good friends. Don't treat them as strangers. Want sunshine and happiness. Only when you are always happy will someone want to be with you. Who doesn't want to be happy? Who wants to worry with you?

If there is a trick, it is brazen.

When dealing with strangers, the face is better than the wall. Such people are the most popular. Don't think about anything. What can he do to you? You hate it again, can he stab you with a knife? You have nothing to lose, and the result is that you can do whatever you want, you are happy, and others think you are sunny and willing to associate with you. In fact, the worst thing is that you should not have any worries now.

Of course, after becoming good friends, I still got a good income. You pretend to be a hooligan, but you are excluded.