It takes us two years to learn to speak, but it takes us a lifetime to learn how to speak. What are the speech skills of smart people? I'll tell you the following. Smart people's speaking skills, 4 say and 4 don't say

It takes us two years to learn to speak, but it takes us a lifetime to learn how to speak. Most of the time, the more you talk, the farther away you are, the more contradictions you have, and the deeper your prejudices.

So, the older you get, the more you learn that sentence? Keep a low profile and do high-profile things? .

it's not that I don't want to talk, but there are a lot of things I can't say, let alone speak. Keep it safe in my heart. Later, we learned to speak with silence.

A wise man, instead of rambling, might as well listen.

Chatting is a matter of grading quality. A willing mind can elevate chatting to the realm of Buddhism, but a careless person can kill chatting. I would rather keep silent than talk nonsense. It is the quality of the speaker to make others unhappy.

when there is nothing to say, listening is talking, and expressing this meaning politely with body language and behavior. Hello, I'm listening carefully. Please go ahead. ?

A wise man, instead of giving a quick reply, might as well think slowly.

Understanding the core and meaning of other people's words takes time to think, interrupting the topic and answering first, all of which show ignorance, rudeness and recklessness.

What others want in the dialogue is a solution to the problem, and what others want to vent their emotions is a hearty outpouring of emotions. After listening to what others have to say, we will know more about the entanglement of the problem, and let others vent their feelings, so that there is room for our words of comfort.

A wise man would rather not talk nonsense than talk to death.

She can understand what he talks and he can understand what she talks, which is the highest way to get to know each other's souls. When a person is in the vast expanse of mountains and waters, he suddenly finds a soul that is so similar, just like groping in the dark, a bright light suddenly appears, vivid and colliding with the soul, and happy as a fairy.

In contrast, when one or two sentences collide, it is found that they are not on the other channel. If you talk more, you will only find that the distance is getting farther and farther and the communication cost is getting higher and higher. Say more, except boring? Hehe? Outside, it leaves us bored with each other.

A wise man talks to his heart and listens to his friends.

Everything in life and work except sleeping is short, and most of the time is spent in conversation. We chat on WeChat, QQ, workplace, marriage and dinner table. Many people chat for comfort, want to vent and be satisfied.

The first three sentences of another person's chat must show their true self, and they do not hide their affectation. They can get understanding from the answers and feel each other's feelings in response, which is the highest quality of chat.

There is a plot in The Condor Heroes: The little dragon girl is seriously injured, and in turn comforts Yang Guo? Life and death have a life, how can we force it? . Master Yi Deng immediately knew that she had realized life and death and said to her. There are children in the world who died not long after they were born. After all, you are lucky to be married. ?

Yang Guo, it seems that this is definitely not a comforting word. Little Dragon Girl just smiled. Then Master Yi Deng asked:? Chicken or egg first? . Yang Guo was puzzled, little dragon girl? Have you made it clear? Answer:? The egg breaks the chicken, and the chicken lays the egg. Where there is life, there is death. ?

After meeting for the first time, in just four sentences, Little Dragon Girl and Master Yi Deng have been able to know each other, and Yang Guo feels that she has never been an outsider since she had a heart-to-heart meeting with her aunt.

A wise man knows that one third of life lies in bed, one third is doing things, and one third is talking. A good word can make people live, and a bad word can make people die. Because the owner of Wuhan noodle restaurant was beheaded, it was also a sentence that Wu Yishuo, a 16-year-old high school student from Shanghai Middle School, became famous young.

a wise man, express himself slowly, speak slowly if you have something to say, and listen to what the other person thinks first, so that others can understand him. Understand and don't understand, not much to say. When you are upset, don't say it. When you are calm, clear your mind. If you really have nothing to say, shut up and say nothing. The natural platform is clear, the mind is transparent, the thoughts are clear, things are organized, and if you master yourself, you will master the direction of success in life.