When you are not married, friends usually make an appointment to talk about work, go shopping, chat and even take a small trip. But after marriage, everyone's focus has shifted to family. You have time, but she has no time. She has time, but you don't. So I always made an appointment several times and found that everyone's pace was no longer consistent, and the desire to get in touch slowly became lower and lower.
2. Everyone's married life has different degrees of happiness, and there is little desire to communicate.
After marriage, their happiness varies greatly. Someone married a rich husband, and every day in the circle of friends, there are all kinds of food and travel photos, and proper petty bourgeoisie. Someone married a husband with a poor family. She and her husband worked nonstop, scrimping and saving. Later, I gradually stopped contacting them, and there was no topic between them, and there was no desire to communicate.
3. People's time and energy are limited, and adults are becoming more and more "lazy to socialize".
Many times, busy work is mixed with the troubles of raising children at home, and many adults want to have a good rest. So after the weekend, many people are willing to stay at home, sleep in, and then spend some time with their children to relieve physical and mental fatigue. On holidays, there are many scenic spots, especially it is inconvenient to take care of children, so many times I choose to travel in the city. Ask friends out to dinner at most, mixed with children's noise, and then break up. Everyone has too much help, so there is not so much desire to socialize.
4. The distance makes once familiar friends even forget each other.
Far and wide together, and then far and wide married people, and finally everyone in this world, quietly living their own lives. Many times, I can't remember to make a phone call and send a WeChat greeting. I will chat with my friends before anything and hope they can give me some advice. But everyone is married, has their own lives, and is unwilling to disturb their friends. Many problems are digested by myself. The desire to speak, with the passage of time, condenses into silence.