If you allow your child to do a few useless things when he is young, he will thank you when he grows up. Have you found that the last thing parents can't stand is to see their children do "useless" things? Everyone is uncomfortable to see the child lying flat; You will be annoyed to see your child in a daze; If a child peeks at "leisure books", we think that the child has nothing to do. If a child likes playing basketball and doesn't like studying and training, we think this child is worthless. Everyone wants their children to do useful things every minute in their 24-hour study. But what kind of child will a child become if he only does what is good for adults? In the hidden corner, Zhu Chaoyang's mother felt that her children only needed to study and train, and didn't need to make friends. As a result, Zhu Chaoyang indulged in the friendship between Yan Liang and Pupu, and her life path went astray step by step.

Wei Yongkang's mother is a "gifted teenager". In order to make Wei Yongkang concentrate on her study and training, she washes the sheets, delivers meals, takes a bath, washes her face, and even breastfeeds her children herself. Although Wei Yongkang was admitted to the graduate school, she was finally scared away because she couldn't take care of herself. In the growth of children, nothing is "useless", especially the following three seemingly useless things, which are of great significance to the rapid development of children. Parents must make it clear! Allow children to have "useless" hobbies. In the documentary "Little Boy", 1 1 year-old Yin Ran is particularly fond of scientific research on bugs, and even opened up a bug-raising area in his technical major. Yin Ran's parents can also encourage their son's passion in a very beneficial way.

Yin Ran has different kinds and habits of insects, and has known many professional gods in the process of specific insects and gained many professional abilities. However, some parents are just the opposite. In Xiao Shede, Yan Ziyou loves scientific research bugs and idealizes himself as an expert, but his mother says that personal hobbies are useless. Her mother abandoned her child's turtle, stopped using her child's football lessons and forced her child to study every day. Finally, Ziyou's fighting spirit collapsed.

A person is lucky if he can find the direction you like as soon as possible. However, without the strong support of parents, this kind of good luck will only become a tragedy. The main content of each child's specialty is different. Some children are good at drawing, some like to do manual work, some are interested in programming, and some are obsessed with scientific research on insects. There is no preference for "uselessness". Even if the child cannot become a professional in this field, he will continue to gain a lot in the process. He has won great attention, he understands his love, and he also knows what is doing his best and what is the joy of learning knowledge. Therefore, parents should not stop their children from having "useless" hobbies, but should encourage their children's enthusiasm and be their firm supporters.

Allow children to read "useless" books. If a child is only diligent in thinking about learning and training in school, but never reads useless books, the child will not go far in learning, and the more he learns in class, the more difficult it is. Reading will make children have a lot of knowledge reserves, and a lot of reading will improve their logical thinking ability, logical thinking ability and logical thinking ability. However, this is the bottom thinking of every study. In the documentary "The Story of China Teenagers", the bookshelves of principals and students in Haidian, Xicheng and Chaoyang districts are filled with all kinds of books without exception. This kind of children read a wide range of articles and accumulated a lot of knowledge. Their words and deeds have their own consciousness, and their eyes are full of smart energy.