Of course there are friends who have known each other for more than ten years. Although we don’t keep in touch with each other often, we miss them very much every time we think of them.
Those friends who have known each other for more than ten years were all friends when they were teenagers. We spent a unique period of innocence together, laughing, playing and making trouble together. Looking back now, I still feel that it is very beautiful. , is a warm and worry-free time in life.
Time flies by, and we are all growing up. Because we are busy with studies and work, we are growing up separately. Although we cannot be by each other's side all the time, we will still remember each other silently in our hearts.
When I am sorting out my things, I often dig out some objects from my childhood. Each one is full of memories, a letter, a bracelet, a notebook, a postcard, a A graduation photo... will bring back your memories, remind you of some people and things, and make you miss them very much, as well as the old times we spent together.
Although time passes like water and never looks back, we are all pushed to grow up, gradually make new friends and have a new life, but some people will never be forgotten.
Even if we don’t contact each other often, we will still pay attention to each other’s updates in the circle of friends, and look forward to meeting each other after a long absence when we are free to talk about the past, talk about each other’s current situation, and talk about the past. When we talk about our vision for the future, it is very satisfying to know that each other is well.
No one can replace those good friends. They will always have a unique place in my heart and will be deeply missed throughout my life.
Even though we don’t contact you often, I still want to be thousands of miles away and wish you all the best, peace and happiness in my heart. I hope that when we meet, it will still be the same as before.
People still talk and laugh when they are gone
I am an octogenarian husband. I have several colleagues from 30 years ago who are still in contact with each other today. They are younger than me. In their 30s, they are all middle-aged people who have passed their destiny. I was transferred away in the autumn of 30. The three of them treated me with a cold tea and a cigarette that was not extinguished. They are gentlemen's feelings, which moved me!
After all these years, we still have a close relationship. What’s the reason?
The first and third views are similar and the aspirations are the same. Tell each other about joy and sorrow, and help each other. If nothing happens, call and greet; if something happens, get together to discuss.
The two share the same goals and are very positive. Among the three young colleagues, some started as clerks and became section chiefs; one started as clerks and became general manager of the company; the other started as technicians and was hired as chief engineer.
Three times of trouble and trouble, help if you can. If anyone encounters trouble, try your best to smooth it over.
The four festivals gather together to talk about friendship. On Seniors' Day and Spring Festival, make an appointment in advance, have an intimate dinner, toast each other, and reminisce about the past...
Friendships are based on sincerity, and true love can be learned in times of adversity!
I think it is normal for a person to have several long-term friends in his life.
I don’t dare to talk about other people’s situations, so I’ll just talk about my friends.
I have several friends who have been together for more than thirty years, including friends who have been together for more than fifty years. Here, there are classmates, comrades, and colleagues.
Let’s talk about my classmates first. There is a male classmate who is in the same class in elementary school and middle school. Our friendship lasted for more than fifty years. I was familiar with him and everyone in his family, and he was familiar with everyone in my family. The two of them speak the same language and have the same hobbies. They go to school together, walk together after school, and play together during holidays. We are all retired now, so we will get together after a while. This is a very pure friendship.
Let’s talk about comrades. There is a comrade who is also a classmate in elementary school. Parents are friends. He and I served as soldiers together, rode on the same boat, rode in the same stuffed-tank truck, and ate from the same meal in the recruit company and training team. Later, we went to the plateau together, fought together in the same company, and lived together for more than six years. In the past, when filling out a cadre resume, each experience had to be written with the name of the certifier. We can prove each other's first half of life.
Later, they all changed jobs and lived in the same third-tier city, and we would see each other every once in a while.
There is also a comrade who is a fellow soldier and joined the army in the same year. We didn't know each other before, but later due to work needs, the two of us formed a team in a battalion-level unit. I was the Party Committee Secretary and Political Instructor, and he was the Military Chief and Deputy Secretary of the Party Committee. In the army, not many military and political leaders have good relations with each other. We have the same temperament and work well together. It’s not that there’s no contradiction at all. With different opinions, everyone can be open and honest and get along with each other frankly. During the incident, both of them were in a good mood. After changing careers, I also worked and lived in the same city. No matter what difficulties or problems each other has, as long as we can help, there is no problem. We also got together last night. Our friendship has been more than thirty years.
There are also some comrades from other places who have been separated for decades, but still miss each other and maintain pure friendship. In the 1970s, when I was in Golmud, Qinghai, I had a very close relationship with a comrade who had joined the army in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province. This is a very good soldier. He could have been promoted, but because he had to take care of his elderly grandmother, he asked to be discharged and returned to Xi'an. After he retired from the army, I often went to Xi'an to see him. When I got married, he gave me a photo album, which I still treasure at home. Later, he went to Hainan, and I also left the army, and we lost contact with him. Thirty years ago, several of our leaders went to Hainan, and he attended the reception. I heard that I was from Huaiyin, Jiangsu Province, so I asked them for information about me. It just so happened that they were familiar with my situation. So we got in touch again. Over the years, I have gone to Hainan three or four times to see him. He also made two special trips to Jiangsu to see me. Still keep in touch.
There are also some comrades from other places who still maintain close contact. Due to space reasons, I won’t go into details here.
After I changed my career, I went to work locally and had some close colleagues. After retirement, we still kept in touch and the friendship remained. There are male colleagues here as well as female colleagues. Regardless of our position in the unit or our age, we get along like brothers and sisters because we share the same values.
Some people believe that it is impossible to have a true friendship between men and women. I always think this is a bias. I have a very pure friendship with several female colleagues in my workplace. Both in the past and now, they respect and trust each other.
A true friend has true feelings. This kind of true feelings will not be erased by time. It can also stand the test.
Of course, I have also had the experience of being used and deceived by so-called friends. After all, such people are in the minority, so it’s okay not to mention them.
I am not saying this to brag about myself. As an old man, I just want to tell young people that there are liars and sincere friends in the world.
There is true love and true affection in the world!