As more and more people marry later in life, blind date is basically a new way to make friends with the opposite sex. And among those who can marry later, how many of them don’t have their own ideas? In fact, it is easy to understand. At this age, we have more ideas and have matured a lot. We all have reservations about blind dates. If we can do it, we can't. It seems pretty good. However, many people go on a blind date and come back to find that it is neither too hot nor too cold for you. In this case, would you do this? What should you do if your date is lukewarm to you? 80% of people will do this!

1. Rejection in disguise, we are not suitable

When your blind date is lukewarm to you, some people choose to reject it in disguise, which is not suitable for us. That means it's mostly boys. When this happens, most boys will feel that the woman doesn't want to care about you and is dissatisfied with you. If you send a message in the past, your love will never come back, and you are very disrespectful to people, so you just ignore it, don't follow the next interest, and reject it in disguise.

2. Refuse directly

When chatting with the other party after a blind date and showing a lukewarm attitude, boys and girls will feel that the other party does not like them, so they end it and say " We’re not a good fit,” plain and simple. In this case, everyone basically got along well, and then there was no contact.

3. Don’t drag your feet too much

I believe that 80% of people will be in this state. First let's analyze why this is the case. At the beginning, we pointed out a concept. People who marry late have their own ideas and thinking about this society, so we will not do impulsive things, but make decisions after weighing the pros and cons. Therefore, when a person is lukewarm towards you, most people will resent it. But why is it dragging on? Here’s why: I wanted to give up, but I felt I had to try again. Maybe I won't be free, but I will eventually succeed.

Family urging, matchmaker inquiries, fatal. Both parties are people you cannot offend. You can only tell her bravely, and then others will treat you lukewarm and slow. In the end, they just resent each other and walk away. So, what do you do when you meet a date who is lukewarm to you? Just ignore it and look for the next one? Or stay in touch and strive for success?