? He can read your mind, understand what you want to say and understand that you have nothing to do.
? Many times, as long as a look, a smile, the other party can get the message.
? However, the beautiful skin is the same, and the interesting soul is one in a million.
It is really not easy to meet people with similar souls in the vast sea of people.
Only when the frequencies are the same can they be merged.
As the saying goes, fate is predestined, people can't get together or leave.
Some people walk away and become strangers all their lives;
And some people, no matter how time flies, never leave.
The person who can really have fate with you must be the person with the same frequency as you.
Because only the same frequency can vibrate. People with the same frequency as you will form a magnetic field in the process of getting along, attracting you to approach slowly.
My friend A Ying is a very principled person.
Every close friend should be measured by her own standards of making friends.
People who are uncomfortable with each other will gradually fade away and regard each other as ordinary friends.
People who get along well with each other, she will be more careful to manage this relationship and maintain it.
She said: "The most important thing to get along with people is to find a common ground and get along at your own pace. It is wrong to catch up with others forcibly, or to slow down deliberately to accommodate others. "
Indeed, people will meet all kinds of people in this life. If a relationship is always maintained by accommodating and chasing, it is easy to get tired.
The book The Elegance of the Hedgehog says:
"We are all lonely hedgehogs. Only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. "
Yes, the frequencies are different, so it is difficult to integrate.
People with different frequencies will eventually pass by even if they meet many times.
People with the same frequency, even if they can only meet once, will attract each other and blend in.
Only when the three views fit can we be friends.
Some people say that a relationship is drifting away, and most of the reasons are not distance, but disagreement.
Think about it, it really makes sense.
You share your happiness seriously, and he thinks you are showing off;
You pour out your sufferings in melancholy, and he thinks you are weak and incompetent.
People with different views can't empathize because of different cognition.
No matter how you express and communicate, it is difficult for the other party to understand and agree with your ideas.
As Tu Lei said, "Two people have different views and it is difficult to reconcile, and they will never be happy together."
Different views are doomed to be different.
Only people with the same three views can really come into our lives and become our soul mates.
Between people, in fact, it is easy to meet and difficult to get along with.
A nodding acquaintance may not be difficult. However, it is not easy to become good friends and confidants. We must cherish those who share the same views.
Li Bai and Du Fu are both great poets in history.
Although there is a gap in their age, it does not affect their daily communication at all.
Because they appreciate and admire each other, they are also teachers and friends, and they often get together to sing poems and have fun.
Unconsciously, the two men collided with many sparks in the literary exchange and finally achieved each other.
There is an old saying: "speak with one voice, seek with the same spirit."
Even if you barely become friends, you can't always walk into each other's hearts.
People who meet the three views have long kept each other in mind, even if they don't have regular contact with each other.
People with similar souls always meet.
All people in the world, not all people can talk to you, and not all people will be sincere to you.
Only people with similar souls will cross mountains and rivers, approach you and approach you.
As the law of attraction says, "What kind of person you are will attract what kind of people and energy."
Walking, you will gradually understand that all souls meet because of you.
People who are similar to your soul can meet you across the vast sea of people. In the final analysis, it is because you have the same frequency and the three views fit together.
People with similar souls know how to cherish friendship because of the same frequency;
People with similar souls know how to put themselves in others' shoes because of the harmony of the three views.
It is up to you who can come into your life and become your soul mate.
So don't worry about meeting someone similar to your soul on the road of life.
As the saying goes, "Flowers bloom and butterflies come", as long as you do yourself well, you will naturally attract people who are similar to your soul.
Dong Qing said: "Everything in the world meets, just like cold meets warm and rain;" Spring meets winter, and there are years; Heaven and earth meet, and there is eternity; When people meet, there is life. "
It is no accident that people meet each other.
You have to believe that people with similar souls will meet on the road one day.