We often say: Chasing girls means attracting girls.

But attracting girls is a very broad concept, which contains many attraction factors. Each attraction factor can help you attract girls, but the attraction of these factors may be strong or weak.

Some girls value appearance, so a boy with good enough looks can effectively attract this girl; some girls value personality and like cheerful boys, so when a guy appears next to her Girls will be easily attracted to cheerful boys.

Among the many attraction factors, in fact, there is one that is a powerful attraction factor for most girls. The attraction effect is not worse than the appearance factor, but this attraction factor belongs to "cold knowledge". , few boys know how to use it.

In psychology, this method is called "herding effect". I believe many people have heard of this effect. In love science, this method is called "pre-selection".

Whether it is "herding effect" or "pre-selection", we only need to understand its principle to achieve the purpose of attracting girls. What is the difference between herding and preselection?

Let me give you an example.

1. What is the herd effect?

If you want to buy a steamed bun, there are two stores in front of you. One store is very busy with customers queuing up, but the other store has no business. You can just go and buy it directly. No need. Queuing up, which store would you choose to buy steamed buns? ,

I think most people will choose the store with the best business. Even if you need to spend time and energy to line up, you are still willing to do so because you have been attracted to it.

This is actually what we often call the "herding effect". If we think about it from a deeper level: Why are people so easily attracted? Is there any secret to this? This is the charm of "pre-emption".

2. What is "pre-attraction"?

In fact, deep down in your heart, when you see others queuing up at this store, you have already concluded that the buns in this store are delicious, even if you haven't tried them yet. ,

This is "pre-selection". Others have already "identified" it for you. The buns in this store are delicious. You don't have to spend energy to try them anymore, eliminating unnecessary trial and error costs.

In other words: the deep-seated effect of "herding effect" is "pre-selection attraction". The application of pre-attraction in the process of chasing girls.

Above, we used an example to illustrate: Baozi shop achieves "pre-selection and attraction" through the buying crowd, continuously attracting customers to buy, forming a virtuous cycle.

So, when chasing girls, if you want to attract girls, then you also need to let girls know that you are very popular with other girls.

When a girl knows that you have good luck with women, she will subconsciously think that you are very attractive, and she will want to know more about you and see how attractive you are. , she will be slowly attracted to you.

Many boys always make this mistake when getting along with girls: they like to show that they are innocent in front of girls and have never been in love to prove their purity. In fact, this is definitely not the case. A good way.

Girls will more often think: Why have you not been in love for so long? Do you have low emotional intelligence?

A girl will raise all kinds of doubts in her mind, and once she has doubts about you, she needs to find out these doubts. This requires boys to spend time and energy to prove to girls, which will undoubtedly greatly Make it more difficult to chase girls.

So, instead of acting "innocent", it is better to learn to "pre-select", which will make you more attractive to girls and greatly reduce the difficulty of chasing girls.

So, in the process of chasing girls, how do boys achieve pre-selection and attraction? The specific operation of pre-selecting attraction?

The core of the operation is: let girls feel that there are many girls around you and that you are a boy who is popular with girls. Of course, you cannot show that you are a playboy. You just have "women's fate". That's all.

The specific operation usually includes the following three aspects.

1. Show your charm through your circle of friends.

If you are getting along with a girl, you can post some updates to Moments. No matter what the relationship is between you, as long as the purpose is pure, posting on Moments is purely a normal life update. ,

In this case, no one will think you are bothersome, but will think you are very charming.

2. Take the initiative to expand your social network.

If you can chat with many people at work, then when your client sees this, he will trust you even more, because you are popular and others have already certified him for it. If you know your quality, customers will also trust you. ,

If you want to attract more girls, you need to mingle with more girls. Of course, it does not mean that you will become a playboy, it is just a normal social relationship. After all, making more friends is not a matter of bad thing.

3. Getting along with girls can reveal your destiny as a woman unintentionally.

Sometimes, when a girl asks you how many girlfriends you have dated, for this kind of question, in fact, you don't need to lie, just tell the truth, and there is no need to deliberately "reduce the number". ,

When getting along with girls, you can also occasionally reveal your "female relationship". The core element to do this is: you can let girls know that the relationship between you and other girls can be said to be If a girl likes you, you can say that you have a good relationship with a girl, but these must be based on facts, and of course there should be no impure relationship.

In fact, attracting girls is a psychological effect.

Human nature has many characteristics. Some people are attracted by cheap things, some are attracted by beautiful things, and some are attracted by vanity. These are all due to human nature.

If boys can understand girls’ hearts and understand some of their characteristics, I believe you can attract girls more easily and become a boy who is popular with girls.