If you are surrounded by a flock of eagles, then you will become an eagle spreading its wings and flying; If you are surrounded by tits, you may never see the vast sky. This shows how deeply our friends' behavior affects us.
If you have many true bosom friends who can help you walk on the bright road, you will become an eagle; Improper choice of friends will lead you astray, even to the abyss of illegal crimes, become a titmouse that will never fly, and your lifelong happiness will be destroyed.
Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends. Friends are straight, friends are cold, and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends are withdrawn, friendly and soft, and friends will be destroyed and damaged. " Zhang Heng is a well-known figure. He invented the seismograph and did research in astronomy and physics.
Zhang Heng had many bosom friends when he was young, such as Ma Rong, Wang Fu and Cui Yuan. These were talented young people at that time, especially Cui Yuan, who studied astronomy, mathematics and calendar very early. Zhang Heng often studies problems and exchanges ideas with him. Zhang Heng's further research on astronomy, physics and other sciences was influenced by Cui Yuan.
In life, we should make more beneficial friends, awe-inspiring friends (friends who encourage morally, friends who admonish each other when making mistakes) and close friends (friends who can be relied on in life or in times of crisis). Make fewer intimate friends (fair-weather friends) and fewer thieves (ungrateful friends). We should be careful when choosing friends. You know, one short step makes a lasting regret.
Pay attention when making friends: "exaggerators" can't be trusted; "Speak slowly and quickly" is our friend. For those irresponsible friends who want to drag you into the water, those so-called "friends" who have serious bad habits, refuse to turn over a new leaf, refuse to listen to dissuasion, and hinder your study and progress, you should lose face, put aside your worries and resolutely make a clean break with them so as not to be used and regret for life.
When dealing with friends, we should always keep a clear head, know what is right for friends, think independently in everything, uphold principles, and analyze the right and wrong ideas of friends. Learn the right things and guard against the wrong things.
In class, interacting with friends who are afraid of friends will make our academic performance step by step. They will be desperate to point out mistakes for us, and sometimes we do something wrong, and he selflessly points out; Sometimes it may be that he criticizes us so much that we even quarrel with him;
Sometimes when we are not attentive in class, he will immediately remind you of selfless and sincere words such as "it's time to take notes" and "why don't you listen". This is the true friend we should make! Why are you born with happiness and don't know it? He dyed his red selflessly on you, asking for nothing in return. Why not accept it?
Students, remember that "making friends with a gentleman is like wearing moonlight;" Making friends with villains is like stepping into a poisonous snake. "It is black when it is close to Zhu Zhechi, and it is black when it is close to Mexico." You should associate with "red people" more, refuse the unreasonable principled requirements of "Mohist", and let you move forward step by step on the road of life!