ancient prose: Confucius said: a gentleman is not powerful if he is not heavy, and his learning is not solid. Lord faithfulness. He who has no friends is worse than himself. Never too late to mend.
? If a gentleman does not respect himself, he will have no dignity, and even if he studies, he will not be solid. It is important to be honest and trustworthy. Don't make friends with people who are different from you. Don't be afraid to correct your mistakes.
There are several versions of the phrase "He who has no friends is worse than himself". Generally speaking, the following three points can be summarized: 1. The mainstream opinion represented by Zhu Xi cannot make friends with people who are not as good as themselves in morality, because it is harmful and useless. 2. Qian Mu's statement has something in common with Li Zehou's. If you want to have the pursuit of being friends with people higher than yourself and help yourself improve your moral cultivation level, you will naturally get a good friend. 3, nan huaijin as the mainstream, make friends at the beginning, choose the good. See the sage Si Qi, and introspect when you are not wise; All friends have something to learn or learn from.
apply what you have learned: after learning, I set myself a principle of making friends, and choose people who are honest, kind, sincere, don't speak malicious language, don't care about everything, and are generous and broad-minded.
The essence of living is to be responsible for one's life and realize self-worth. China is a human society and a relational society. People are interrelated and influence each other, making good friends, benefiting from work and life for life, and making bad friends. Life is a mess.
According to psychological research, it is easy to find people's mistakes. Does everyone know that he has done something wrong or said something wrong? Absolutely know! However, people have a problem. They clearly know that they are wrong. In the second, they find many reasons to support their mistakes. The more they think about themselves, the more correct they are. They don't hesitate to take things and people around them to justify them. Such people can easily lose friends, and even relatives will drift away.
ancient prose: benevolence is beautiful, so how do you know if you choose not to be benevolent?
It is good to live with people who are kind. How can you say that you are wise if the place you choose is not with people with benevolence?
Understanding of life: If you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black if you are near Mexico, and you will be exposed to people who are benevolent. In real life, what kind of people you are with determines what your future life will be like, and even changes your growth trajectory and determines your life.
There are three things to be thankful for in my life: being a teacher and a friend, and meeting a good teacher at school. I am a leader and a friend. I met a good leader at work. You are both a lover and a friend, and find a good partner when you get married.
These friends played a vital role in my growing up. When I was in the music school, I met a wonderful class teacher and appointed me as the monitor. In the past three years, I personally organized and participated in a number of large-scale activities inside and outside the school, which gave me a lot of exercise opportunities and became the key training object of the school. Before graduation, I was assessed as an activist of joining the party.
? After work, the main leaders of Yankuang Electric Aluminum Company helped me a lot, and arranged writing tasks for me to make new attempts and break through myself. After eight years in Alcatel, I have found a sense of accomplishment and value: I was promoted as a minor subject, officially joined the Party, obtained a postgraduate degree, a master's degree and the qualification of a senior political engineer, won the first prize in journalism and the title of top ten journalist in succession, and was also hired as a special correspondent by the national magazine China Nonferrous Metals Magazine.
finding a good partner is the happiness of a woman's life. This is also an important reason why I can sacrifice my career, change my job many times and support my partner without regrets. I appreciate my partner's attitude towards life: caring for the weak, helping the poor, being kind, sincere, considerate of others, daring to face difficulties and taking responsibility.
? My partner's flexible working ideas, love to learn and love to use his brain have a great influence on me. When I can't write an article, I always ask him for advice. He always gives me some new and exciting ideas, which makes me feel enlightened. In order to better help me improve my writing level, I often recommend good books he has read, and often drag me to study with him and grow up together. Before going to bed, we always get to know each other's current situation, and listen to him talk about things at work, how he responded and solved them, which raised my ideological level to a higher level. Talking about anecdotes between friends makes me feel that the feelings between friends are established through sincerity. Listening to what he said about studying abroad opened my eyes and made me look forward to a better life.