From birth to entering the society, watching a person's growth history is a difficult escape history step by step, and it is really not easy to live!

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At the end of 20 17 12, everyone was busy bidding farewell to the old year and looking forward to the future.

A student of Fuping Blu-ray Middle School in Weinan, Shaanxi Province was beaten to death by five other students! Then throw it from the fifth floor! !

I don't know what kind of fear, fear, horror and pain that child experienced before he died. We send our children to school on the basis of education and good wishes for their success.

Who expected this to be the end?

Looking back now, our children have to go through countless steps from birth to childhood, to college and to society before they can grow up smoothly.

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From every mother who is pregnant in October, from the initial pregnancy of every life, although it is in the mother's natural barrier, it is difficult to guarantee that you will come out. (If you meet an ignorant and uncivilized father, you know)

Come out smoothly and come to the world. Whether you know it or not, civilized or uncivilized, you are already in the Jianghu. And there are risks in the rivers and lakes.

A nurse in Fuping, Shaanxi, lied to the parturient and her family for various reasons all the year round, and then sold the live baby after deceiving the parents.

By the time it was discovered, 13 children had been sold by her, and the fate of these 13 children could never be changed and turned back. Their lives have been hit hard from the moment they were born, and they can't make up for it from now on.

There are risks in rivers and lakes, people are good or bad, and bad people and good people have the same eyes, nostrils and mouths. You can't tell them apart.

This is the first big pit in life.

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I was taken home by my parents and carefully taken care of, and sent to kindergarten when I was two or three years old.

The uproar over Ctrip's child abuse incident really shocked all parents, and the Beijing Red, Yellow and Blue incident really taught them a lesson.

The Supreme People's Procuratorate made it clear that it has zero tolerance for child molestation and child abuse.

However, such incidents have been repeatedly banned. (It is difficult to obtain evidence)

Not only now, child molestation and child abuse have always existed since ancient times.

When I was young, my grandfather's drugstore. An aunt came to the door and had an argument with a man who worked in a drugstore because of the child. Grandpa finally dismissed him, although he refused to admit it. There is no smoke without fire, and no parent will make something out of nothing because of such a thing.

The environment of "early childhood education" needs to be improved urgently.

The law takes time, but our children can't wait, and our parents can't wait and can't afford it.

Survival is so bad that we have to face it.

This is another big pit.

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Entering middle school, my body and mind have developed rapidly. However, this period is also the peak period when school bullying was insulted by the school bully.

June 20 16, a boy aged 1 15 in Qinghai, school bullying committed suicide by taking poison, and three suicide notes revealed the truth.

One of them is this:

"Once I accidentally stepped on my classmate Zhang Moumou's socks. Zhang Moumou asked Tao to buy a new pair and spent five dollars. Xiao Zhang also said that he would increase 8 yuan's money every week, and now it is 34 yuan's money. Xiao Zhang gave me a beating last night ... "

Tao's bullying escalated again and again. I skipped school several times and was sent back after being beaten and scolded by my parents. Finally Tao was overwhelmed and committed suicide at school.

The child came home from the second day of the second day and told me once.

"I earned 10 yuan today."

I asked him how he earned it, and he replied that a girl in the class was in a bad mood and needed to vent. She wants to hit someone to borrow her ass. My son happened to be on the side, so he eagerly lent his ass to the girl and kicked two feet to get rid of the gas.

The son generously borrowed his ass, and the girl generously gave 10 yuan relief money.

Let's not talk about 10 yuan's appearance fee.

Just say that if a son doesn't borrow his ass, he may be attacked by a girl in a bad mood for no reason. Because people's negative emotions always need an outlet, let alone young teenagers.

When it comes to verbal attacks, it is difficult for anyone to guarantee that it will not escalate into a bad physical fight.

Now that I think about it, I am particularly scared. I am also gratified by my son's wisdom.

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In the early summer of senior three, my nephew went to school by bike. On the way, he was stopped by a school bully who had left school. My nephew was timid and had no money, so he gave him his bike.

The bully doesn't even remember the thing itself, but the bullied one has left a permanent wound in his heart.

Edison was not smart or clever when he was at school, and often bored the teachers, so the unpopular Edison was very depressed.

The loving mother knew this situation and negotiated with the teacher at the first time.

Without a satisfactory answer, Emma decided to teach herself because "school is not very beneficial to children's growth."

It cannot be arbitrarily said that Edison's success originated from his mother, but there is no doubt that it was this great mother who saved this talented boy from being buried.

Voltaire said, "I can't agree with everything you say until I die, but I will defend to the death your right to say everything."

How much our children need such a brave and wise mother.

Parents are the most important barrier in children's hearts and the last line of defense for children. If parents are unwilling to trust their children to help them, how can children have confidence to fight bullying?

The distrust and inaction of parents will add fuel to the fire and become the last straw to overwhelm children.

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In college, children are adults and guardians. The guardian should have the responsibility and responsibility of the guardian.

The first responsibility is to make friends.

In the Jiangge murder case concluded some time ago, Jiangge was a man who was badly hurt by his friends.

Jiangge's best friend, who lives on, hides in his room from beginning to end, locking the door, blocking Jiangge's only way to escape and making survival a luxury.

So, make friends with your heart. If the three views are different from the world view, please alienate as soon as possible.

The world is very big and there are many things to experience.

I believe you understand the story of the farmer and the snake. What you have to do is not to make the same mistake and become a farmer again.

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Be careful in making friends, and be careful in words and deeds. Otherwise, you put yourself or your friends in danger or disadvantage.

Li was born in the countryside and was admitted to the university through hard work.

A * * * six students in the same dormitory. Several other people often bully Li. Li contracted to fetch water and sweep the floor. Not only that, they often attack with words.

One night, while everyone was asleep, Li took out a hammer prepared in advance and knocked out all the heads of the other four people in the dormitory. The fifth one escaped because he occasionally gave Ali a bag of potato chips two days ago.

In the poisoning case of Fudan University in Shanghai, a couple died because of a verbal dispute. (April 6, 20 13, Huang Yang died of poisoning; February 6, 20 15, 165438, Lin Senhao was executed).

No matter what kind of atrocities and absurd things, as long as there are perpetrators, there will be victims. As long as there are bullies, there will be bullies.

When induced and fermented by external factors, being bullied sometimes turns into violence and injury.

No matter whether you are bullied or bullied, you will be hurt and lose both sides.

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Interview with Lin Senhao before execution in Fudan poisoning case;

Reporter: "When did you start to feel this regret?"

Lin: "I began to regret it before I entered the detention center."

Fa: If you go back in time, what kind of life do you want most?

Lin: A simple life doesn't need to pursue too many things, just truth, goodness and beauty.

Law: Why did you cry at the second trial? Miss Huang Yang?

Lin: I miss him and think he is particularly innocent.

Fa: What do you think of your father's education and influence on you?

L: I have no right to comment. My father is great, but his cultural level and vision are limited. I think it is normal. A person's growth is not just a family environment.

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A person's growth is not just a family environment. School environment, society and many other factors.

Everyone's growth history is a difficult, desolate and fragile escape history.

The world is so thin and cold, and it is so difficult to survive. For survival, for us, for our children.

Please don't hide in the crowd and look on coldly.

Even if you are not bullying directly, please don't be a teacher who ignores you, and please don't be an inactive parent who overwhelms your child's last straw.

Turn a blind eye.

There is nothing I can do, and it is also a sin to blame everything on my own incompetence.

The world is thin and cool, and it is not easy to survive. Let's live and cherish it.

Reporter: "Now the case is in the stage of death penalty review. I have thought about what it means to you if you are approved for the death penalty. "

Lin Senhao: "For me, it means a reward. I think it's good. Because of this, they (Huang Yang's parents) can also let go. I imagine that if I am lucky enough not to die, I will serve at least 25 years, which will not be a simple number. By then, I will come out. My parents are in Huang Yang. My parents are almost one hundred years old. As for me, I have been out of society for a long time, and I may only have the most basic survival skills left. You said you could make it up to them with your own hands. This is a bit crazy, or is it a lie? If you repay them like this, maybe tomorrow they will be able to let go of this resentment. It is better to live healthily and actively. "

Lin Senhao: "Everyone will regret it."

Lin Senhao said that he was a graduate student studying medicine. For him, life should be supreme and there should be awe of life, but he lacks this sense of responsibility.

Lin Senhao: "It should be said that there is only one life, and time cannot be turned back. I think you people, especially young people, should realize this, and then all of us will respect life and be responsible for our own lives. If you keep thinking about going back when it's time to go back, there won't be so many stupid things. But in fact, many people must have done a lot of stupid things when they were young, right? You should tell your child this idea from an early age and let him be responsible for his life. "