Original text: When you meet a person who is silent and silent, don't lose your heart; when you see a person who is angry but takes good care of himself, you should guard your mouth.
Translation: When you meet someone who has a gloomy expression and doesn’t speak, don’t be in a hurry to have a heart-to-heart talk with him; when you meet someone who is arrogant and indignant, be careful with your words.
Analysis: When making friends, you should choose carefully. Don’t choose the wrong friend to affect your life. It is harmful to make friends with people who are upright, sincere, and well-informed. It is harmful to make friends with people who flatter, flatter, backbite, and like to talk. However, it is not easy to choose true friends, so the ancients often lamented that "there are many acquaintances in the world, and how many people can know each other well". If you know how to make friends, make friends widely, and make good friends, you must pay attention to the scale, so that friendship will last forever. Therefore, we are required to be good at discerning and choosing carefully when interacting with others.
Realize that a true friend is one in which you are not afraid to expose your weakness in front of her, and she will not laugh at your vulnerability. Good friends can convey positive emotions to each other, rather than just pouring out negative energy and taking out the trash at each other. Not only can we waste time together chatting about random gossip and complaining about things we hate, but we can also seriously point out the other person's shortcomings when we see them and ask them to correct them.
I am very lucky to have such a person in my life now. I have always classified her as a friend, but I have never called her a good friend. Only recently did I understand that it is because of lack of trust. She can directly point out my shortcomings and problems, but many times I am stubborn and refuse to accept them. After a long time, I will see that she is actually right. After a lot of experience, I discovered and began to reflect: My feedback to my friends should be to increasingly accept the existence of these opinions, take them seriously and correct them. Because of trust, I accept it, and because of trust, I am willing to change myself. Trust is the most basic bottom line between each other.
A true friend should be someone who can enjoy a happy nonsense time and become a better being with the help of each other's light. Now we are also working hard on the road to getting better slowly. I hope that one day we can all be proud of each other. I hope that we start from our aspirations, align with our three views, stay true to our character, and last for years.