How to talk to girls

How to talk to girls. As a boy, you will always meet a beautiful sweetheart, but you don’t know how to approach her. Even when you talk to her, you will always be ignored. Rejection is a headache for most boys. In order to solve this problem, I have prepared some tips for chatting up girls. I hope it will be helpful to you. Tips for chatting up girls 1

Several kinds of opening lines to chat up strange girls

1. Simple style opening lines for picking up girls

Features: direct and simple, suitable for beginners. Not suitable for use in nightclubs; the risk of flying pigeons is high. Example: "Hi, I want to get to know you." "Hey, I think you look good in your dress. What's your name?" "I passed by here and thought you were very elegant. What's your name?"

< p> 2. Brave style pick-up conversation starter

Features: Direct and powerful pick-up conversation starter. Usually, sexual elements are directly introduced into the pick-up language, and it is suitable for use in bars and other nightclubs. People say that this kind of pick-up line usually has a low hit rate. According to my experience, about 1/5 women will respond. Although the hit rate is low, the advantage is that if you want to search, this can be regarded as a very time-saving approach. Of course, this approach has many limitations and few application opportunities. Although this method does not work for most people, it does not mean that it does not work for a small number of people. I've used it a few times in nightclubs (on girls my friends brought out) and it works great, with a slightly more masculine feel. They all thought I was joking. I have never used it with strangers; I think there are better ways to strike up conversations with strangers in nightclubs.

3. Positional mode conversation starter

Features: Humor, very high success rate, suitable for individual or group conversation. This is one of my favorite styles, low risk, high reward. They cannot leave immediately, nor can they drive you away without caring about their manners. As long as you can capture the interest of one of the women in a minute or two (not necessarily the target's interest, it can also be her friend), then you can integrate into their group. The only thing I don't like about this approach is that it costs money. Buying a cup of something is not very economical. If your goal is to get 30 calls today, you're in trouble.

4. Humorous pick-up lines

Features: Social recognition, immediate display of value. This conversation starter requires opportunity and flexibility. The good thing is that if you have enough experience, opportunities and flexibility can be controlled. This is my favorite style in a nightclub!

5. Opinion openers and pick-up chat openers

Features: relatively natural, can be used in daily life and nightclubs, with high hit rate. It's a common technique. Example: I once struck up a conversation with a girl in a cosmetics store in Causeway Bay in Hong Kong. I went to look at cosmetics. There were many beautiful women in the cosmetics store. When I saw a customer who easily scored a 9, I said, "Hello, I need advice." A friend of mine in New York asked me to buy a box of facial masks for her. But I don’t know much about these things, and the salesperson just seemed to only want to sell expensive products. Do you know which brands are reasonably priced and have good quality? Later, the woman introduced the brands she used. We talked about Hong Kong’s bars, local culture, etc.

It is best for newbies not to chat up girls who have male companions. If you really want to strike up a conversation with a guy, you have to say hello to the guy first and be able to take advantage of the situation. For example, in a milk tea shop, if you see a girl's male partner having a cup of milk tea, you go over and ask him curiously and politely: "Hello. What's the name of your milk tea? It seems to be quite delicious. I I want to order a cup too." After you come back from buying milk tea, you say: "Your girlfriend is very pretty, you are really cool." Or, "Your boyfriend is very handsome." If the other party replies, "He is not my boyfriend." /girlfriend", you are in trouble. Then you can chat happily with them~

What to do if the girl you are chatting up has a boyfriend

1. Follow and observe the girl first

What should you do before striking up a conversation? It's better to follow him and observe him first. After all, it's not good to be found harassing his girlfriend. Don't stalk a girl for more than three minutes.

2. When chatting up a girl with friends, don’t just accept one person’s number

For example, if you want to pick up a 7-point girl who is traveling with a 5-point girl (xíng) At that time, you not only have to accept the account of the girl with 7 points, but also the account of the girl with 5 points. If you neglect a 5-point girl, the 5-point girl will pull the 7-point girl away. When dealing with combinations, you should appeal to the whole, not just the individuals. As long as one person in the group rejects you, then everyone in the group will reject you.

3. What to do if your boyfriend suddenly appears

When chatting with a girl, if her boyfriend suddenly appears, you must not panic. Say hello to him before leaving, or say to him: "No, I think your girlfriend is quite beautiful. Are you afraid that you are not attractive enough? Are you afraid that your girlfriend will cheat on you?" If the other party says he is not afraid, then You can ask him for his girlfriend’s WeChat ID. You must be friendly and polite to others. How you speak to others is how they speak to you.

Tips for chatting up girls 2

How to chat up a girl on WeChat for the first time

1. Open with compliments

For example, when talking to a girl friend I saw a very nice photo in the circle

Captured a cute girl with big eyes!

Why can your eyes speak?

Damn it, I have never seen such a pure girl, I seem to be fascinated!

There are ever-changing opening methods, such as starting from avatars, starting from talking, etc., so I won’t go into details here. Just remember the general framework: arouse girls’ emotions, put yourself with those who can only ask questions. "Are you there?" "What are you doing?" and "Have you eaten?" can be used to differentiate between frustrated men, which is a good opening!

2. Emoticon opening

Just post an emoticon directly from your WeChat emoticon package, such as laughing, cute, cute, hello, etc. It’s simple. There are not many routines, and you can also test whether the other party is interested in you. If interested, the other party will reply to you. You must know that it is basically impossible for a girl to take the initiative in chatting. Next, you need to provide the chat topic.

3. Start with interest

When applying to add a girl to WeChat, don’t rush to chat first. You can first take a look at her Moments to see if you can find her interests and hobbies. If you find one, you can start the conversation around her interests and hobbies.

4. Start from the Moments

After adding the other person’s WeChat, first take a general look at the other person’s Moments to have a basic understanding of the girl, and then search for the girl based on the content of the Moments. Topics, the content of a girl’s circle of friends must be of interest to her, otherwise she would not display it in her circle of friends.

For example, if her friends often post photos of her fitness, you can say: "Girls who like fitness have strong self-discipline."

Or her friends often post photos of their work.

If she often posts selfies, then you can say: "So you are a selfie expert."

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