Personally, I think "goodness" should be the first thing we all have, because goodness is followed by love, and love leads to love for others; Sincere friend, I think this varies from person to person Everyone has their own values, so the corresponding choices are different. Others may be too absorbed in their carefree world to be disturbed by others. So, for those who don't have true friends, I make some assumptions and add some suggestions for reference:

First, people who are not good at talking may not have many sincere friends; As we all know, although news exists, most of our communication is based on communication. So, open your heart, communicate actively, express your views and listen to others' opinions. As the saying goes, "In a threesome, there must be a teacher", so that you can gradually accumulate experience and find real friends.

Second, there may have been some experiences that made you afraid to contact others; In view of this situation, we must first have a process of persuasion, let ourselves adapt to the outside world slowly, and the most important thing is to open our hearts. I think true friends are hard to come by and really hard to get, so they are precious. Then realize that you got something from each other that you never had before;

Third, because of their values, they can't find like-minded people; In view of this situation, I think it's better to be patient first. Many times, the world has changed us, not us. According to the actual situation, we try to make some changes ourselves, which are conducive to our own improvement. Then we try to put other people's ways on ourselves to see the actual effect, and slowly give ourselves some buffer time and others some buffer time. In this process of mutual understanding, we can find real friends through empathy.

Finally, everyone has his own way, don't push yourself or others too hard, let nature take its course, understand the world with a broad vision, improve yourself and wish success;