1. No one will be what you think is the safe haven in this life. Only you are your last refuge.

2. Everything in the world is useful, but a sincere heart is the most useless, and a good thing that accomplishes nothing is the most useless.

3. You can love the wrong scum three or five times, but you cannot love the same scumbag three or five times. Taking the wrong path may be due to bad luck, but always jumping into a pit is a retard.

4. People who want to do things are always looking for ways, and people who don’t want to do things are always looking for reasons! There is no impossible road in the world, only people who can't figure it out!

5. In the adult world, there is no eternal backer. Your strongest backer is your hard work and independence.

6. Behind the life you envy, there are hardships you can’t bear. We all understand the truth, but just like a fish living in water, it also dies in water.

7. People are like this. The less powerful they are, the more they like to talk nonsense. Only people who have no strength in the world hope to be appreciated by others all day long.

8. Don’t think that someone who smiles all day long or is taciturn is easy to mess with. When you tear his mask apart with your own hands, you won’t even have a chance to kneel down.

9. The most effective way to reject someone is not to yell at them, nor to hate them to the bone, but to distance yourself respectfully.

10. You will be fooled, not because others are too cunning, but because you are too greedy.

11. A person is happy in front of you, but he may not be happy behind closed doors. No one has an easy life. You don’t have to understand others, but please respect them.

12. Whether it is emotional or material, don't rely entirely on one person, learn to walk independently, otherwise when you lose that person, you also lose yourself.

13. I finally understand why I am not popular with others in life, because I am not hypocritical enough, because I am not sweet-mouthed, cannot flatter others, and cannot tell lies with my eyes open.

14. Everyone will miss it. Everyone has missed it. What really belongs to you will never be missed.

15. If you can't let go, don't let it go. If you can't forget it, remember it first. One day you will find that you have forgotten it while you are still thinking about it.

16. Sometimes, we clearly forgive that person, but we cannot be truly happy. That is because you forget to forgive yourself.

17. Most of the disappointments in this world are due to our failure to become better ourselves, but expecting others to become better others.

18. What makes us unhappy are all trivial things, just like we can dodge an elephant but cannot dodge a fly.

19. The real pattern should be to not care about bad people when you encounter them, and don’t get entangled in bad things. After all, all human suffering stems from anger at one's own incompetence.

20. When I slap you in the face, don’t ask me why I hit you, because when I give you candy, you never say thank you.

21. You and I are not that frog, nestling in our own comfort zone, trapped in our own inherent circle of friends, thinking that life is like this, life is like this, and then blaming everything on fate. .

22. You should try anything, because you can't know what kind of thing or what kind of person can change your life.

23. People often misunderstand themselves, thinking that they are nostalgic and long-term, but in fact they are just not having a good life now.

24. The most difficult thing in the world is to pay attention to your mouth. Whether you pour it in or spit it out, you must control it.