First of all, I would like to give you a thumbs up. I am also a disabled person, but my legs are only somewhat bound. I can see your confidence in your words and wish you well. You already have this self-confidence when you are still in school. I only came out of my low self-esteem at the age of 40. Come on young man, your future is unlimited

I agree with your idea, and I don’t like to be Restrictions, or life has been changed by the outside world, but can you do this, find a part-time worker, and ask her to help you if necessary, or come once or twice a week to help you organize, clean, clean, etc., but with your mother Communicate well and don't be in a hurry. A mother is worried when her son travels thousands of miles. In your case, the mother will definitely be even more worried. I understand the mother's worry. Discuss a compromise with her and give it a try