1. What are the behavioral characteristics of common teenagers? 1. Longing for peer groups to be accepted by peer groups will affect teenagers' self-awareness, so teenagers will care about peer recognition and acceptance, and they will pursue fashion behavior.
2. Teenagers who resist the authority of their parents are in the stage of learning to be independent, and it is easy to resist the authority or parents, so they often quarrel with their parents.
Teenagers are prone to conflict with others. 3, easy to be impulsive and furious Due to hormone secretion, teenagers are impulsive and emotionally unstable, so it is easy to lose their temper and quarrel with others.
4. Exploring the opposite sex Because of the development of secondary sexual characteristics, teenagers like to explore the physiological and psychological characteristics of the opposite sex, so they often make behaviors that attract the attention of the opposite sex and even deliberately bully the opposite sex.
Extended reading: parenting education teaches teenagers to learn to communicate.
Second, how to teach teenagers to avoid conflicts 1. Confronting conflict is a real event and an unavoidable fact. Hiding can't solve any problems, so it's best to face it directly, face it squarely and solve it.
2. Hide your feelings, don't hope the problem will solve itself, so don't pretend. Hide your feelings, and don't cause contradictions and unnecessary disputes because of feelings.
When you learn to deal with problems, don't deal with them, because conflicts usually occur because of a specific problem, not someone, so don't lose your temper with others, just solve the problem.
4, respect and listen to respect others, and listen to what others say, really listen. Listening to parents and teachers may seem like resistance, but separating painting from painting is not the solution.
Extended reading: Teenagers should learn independent living skills.
5. affirmation and self-confidence must be affirmation and self-confidence. Solving problems does not need to be passive, passive and aggressive, but needs self-confidence, and needs to express one's views confidently and calmly.
6. Learn how to negotiate. Learn how to negotiate. This is the most important skill you need to learn. This is a lifelong skill, which is very useful in making friends, work and family.
7. It's best to just look at the present. It's best to only look at what is happening now and not focus on the past, because this will only further disrupt the conflict and lead to more serious conflicts.
8. Silence won't help. Silence can't solve things. Sulking is as bad as attacking. It can't solve the problem. Try to speak out and let others know your thoughts and feelings.
9. Try to be considerate of others, learn to be considerate of others, look at things from the perspective and position of others, don't excuse and analyze the situation, and keep an open attitude to solve problems.
10. Learn to say sorry. Learn to say sorry. If you are wrong, accept it. This won't make you a coward, because only brave people can say sorry.