Whether at work, at home or outside, the time spent alone is getting less and less, and almost everyone is holding a mobile phone all the time.
Saying that you are communicating things or killing time is actually a manifestation of fear of loneliness, which stems from deep insecurity. People always think that the more they have, the safer they are. In fact, having these things, including power, wealth, status and feelings, brings a sense of security that is only temporary. Once impermanence happens, these external things can't bring you any substantial help.
For people with free hearts, loneliness is a random fate and blessing, which can be met but not sought. It is an occasional leisure after a busy day, and it is a secret leisure outside the secular world. It's rare to be alone once, improve yourself and enjoy it with peace of mind! Playing with loneliness is a detached mentality.
Throughout ancient and modern times, countless celebrities can't help but marvel at their biographies, as if they were born out of touch with others. Even in a noisy market, it is like stepping into a desolate wilderness. Yes, they know how to create a quiet psychological environment for themselves, so that they can find their own independent ideological space in the noise, break the cocoon into a butterfly and create world-famous masterpieces.
Like western philosophers, Spinoza is willing to be lonely in grinding the mirror, Nietzsche is willing to be lonely in illness, and the rest, such as Hobbes, Descartes, Locke Leibniz, Hume, Kant and Schopenhauer, are willing to be lonely in celibacy. In China, from Yan Hui to Tessa, more lonely people are willing to dress in simple alleys. Even if they study well and become officials, they always pay attention to the media and don't ask for much. Politics is only for the benefit of the world, which is the performance of applying what you have learned. The fact is that only among great men, the spiritual function of lonely people is far more admirable and desirable than those who have heard and heard.
Wang Han of Hunan Satellite TV is a lonely master. He ingeniously designed a 60-square-meter house in the prosperous area of Changsha into a private cinema. He often comes here alone after recording the program in the middle of the night to choose a happy movie and relax his nerves. On a snowy night, he will show romantic literary films. Indoor warmth and comfort, outdoor snowflakes fluttering, inside and outside set each other off, poetic leisure. Rainy night, an inspirational blockbuster, accompanied by rustling rain, gently beats his indomitable heart; Occasionally, in the afternoon, there will be a historical blockbuster that follows the ups and downs of the characters in the play ... Sometimes he treats himself, a plate of braised chicken wings, a bowl of sticky porridge, eating midnight snack alone, nourishing his heart and stomach, and having a happy appetite. He said, "People sometimes need a space to hide themselves. Life is hard, and it takes a little pursuit to stick to it. For me, a small room for watching movies and a pot of green tea will make life very enjoyable. "
Liu Yunlong, who classifies himself as a post-1960s director, enjoys himself as much as Wang Han, but watches blockbusters in the projection room in the basement. This man shows excellent quality in public, looks handsome, does not admit defeat, is not artificial, and boasts that he is "clear in the turbidity and proud of the world". He doesn't like to get together and join in the fun. In Beijing dialect, it is all kinds. He likes to make friends with people who are wise and kind, and the principle is to let go more. He is also "derailed" and lonely in his busy life, and has cultivated profound life determination and forbearance.
A gentleman in Kobe, Japan, whose name is as famous as the fat cow there. He bluntly said, "Nobel Prize in Literature's things have a strong political flavor. As far as interest is concerned, I don't, which is not to my liking. The most important thing for me is the readers. 300,000 people bought my book just after it was released, which means that readers keep up with my book, which is more important than anything else. " He is Haruki Murakami, a master of pure literature, and his works are famous for their pure beauty. He enjoys loneliness more otherworldly, and his daily life is as simple as going shopping for dinner and then going home. He doesn't drive, use his cell phone, watch TV or take photos. He is obsessed with such a life and addicted to such days. The world's top bestseller "Norwegian Forest" was born in such loneliness.
Mr. Liang Shiqiu thinks: "Loneliness is a kind of happiness. It doesn't have to go to the deep mountain osawa to seek, as long as its heart is clean, it can feel an ethereal and leisurely state in the streets and alleys casually. The so-called' heart is far from yourself' is also true. In this state, we can soar in imagination, jump out of the scum of the world and swim with the ancients. "
There is nothing wrong with loneliness. Seek peace in silence and enjoy indifference in peace. At this time, there is no gain or loss, honor or disgrace, fame and fortune, and disputes. It is almost simple, almost selfless and almost inclusive. As long as you are willing, you have everything, nothing, everything is your own.
There are too many temptations in this materialistic age. There are many tricky people, but few people are willing to settle down and do things. Sharp people are full of scenery and excitement; People who do things are unknown and lonely.
Loneliness is a kind of exercise, which tests a person's mind and character.
Wang Yangming's determination to become a saint is an unspeakable secret. He buried this goal in his heart in the opposition of his father.
After 30 years, I have accumulated a lot and become a saint. Zhuangzi said: "Being empty, quiet, calm, lonely and inaction are the foundation of all things."
Loneliness is the root of everything. Only in loneliness can we know ourselves better, precipitate ourselves and become ourselves.
People who can stand loneliness will focus on their ideals for a long time, will not give up halfway, and will not blame others. They keep walking, and eventually they will come to the place where flowers bloom.
For ordinary people, loneliness is painful, but for practitioners, loneliness is a necessity. We should treat loneliness correctly and learn to enjoy it. Get rid of habits in loneliness, grow wisdom in loneliness, and cultivate your own happiness in loneliness.
Learn to enjoy loneliness in the noise and taste loneliness in the crowd. In fact, understanding loneliness and being content with loneliness is also a great realm of practice.
Loneliness is a seed, which accumulates strength in life, germinates hope, and finally blooms colorful buds on this fertile soil of the soul.
I have a literary friend who suffered from muscular dystrophy in her teens. Sitting alone in a wheelchair, that kind of loneliness and loneliness is unimaginable to ordinary people. However, it is this loneliness that gave birth to his impulse to write. He has been writing for more than ten years, and he has gained a lot in recent years. I feel the light of wisdom and divinity when talking with him. I think this is also the result of enduring loneliness. Loneliness can make life close to nature, let the soul listen to nature and make life more mature; Lonely Beethoven created a brilliant heroic symphony in his silent world.
Loneliness is intoxicating, loneliness is sobering, and there is less impetuousness and more thinking in loneliness. The faint sadness in loneliness leads to the yearning for future life. In Leng Yan, there is more sadness. It is more stable to endure loneliness once. After sitting on the bench for several years, knowledge will increase several levels. The strongest person in the world is the loneliest person. Only the greatest man can accomplish his mission in loneliness. It is a lonely movement, coming naked and walking alone. Learn to enjoy loneliness, the dust in your heart can be purified, the filth of your soul can be washed, and a good attitude can be created.
Learn to be lonely just knows how to live. Tasting loneliness is a kind of enjoyment, and a spiritual realm is gradually sublimated; Enjoying loneliness is a kind of happiness, a transcendental life towards eternity!